If a woman made you wait years to be with her, why can’t she move on if I want to reject her because of that she played mind games with me to much?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I had this happen to me.😆

You hold a special place I her heart. That is, you mean something to her from the standpoint that you were probably the only guy to show her any value who made her fee valued. Without getting anything in return. This doesn't mean she cares about you. Far from it! But you matter because she misses that build up and she wants to have it again. If you've improved yourself in any way. It'll only mean a bigger boost for her. This is why she can't let go. But she still does not give 2 s***s about you.

In my case the woman went on Facebook 2 years later and said she felt there was a lot of things left unsaid between us. Not to me. But to her Facebook audience. And asked her audience if she should reach out to me or just leave it alone since most of her audience were women who were sympathizing with her. Or other guys trying to f*** her they said I wasn't worth it. All this was funny to me because this was 2 years. After the last time we talked and out of the blue. But she had rejected every attempt I made when we knew eachother. So she felt there was things left "unsaid". And she still couldn't say it directly to me. No, I was supposed to start the conversation just so she could tell me she didn't feel that way about me. 😆 It took me a while to learn her game. But what I find amusing is how she maybe on some level realizes what a catch I was. But she's still too toxic and dumb to change her behavior.

Just live your life man she's in your rear view mirror. And wish for the best for her. Because you're in a good place. And I promise she is not. And probably will never be. Be healthy and forgiving (even if understandably you can't forgive her face to face). Don't be bitter.

Sharkstealth · Accepted Answer

I don't allow this. I would rather be alone than get with women who rejected me multiple times and got with others while I waited and waited like the energizer bunny. Don't waste your time. It has happened a lot in my life.