Girls, why would you put your hand on a guy’s abdomen while talking to him?

[Anonymous]

Assuming it’s a coworker and not your friend or something. Someone you dont know well

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

She’s attracted to you.

Because I’ve only done that once in the last 3 years, there was this German guy, he was very smart and attractive, we had spent hours talking and then we danced.

When we danced I instinctively put my hand on his abdomen and he put my head on his chest, felt amazing.

[Asker]

Is there any chance it was done in a friendly way? The thing is we are coworkers and not friends

[Anonymous]

This is such a wild question lol

As a female, I've only touched a person's stomach if I was fucking them or planning on fucking them. Other than that it's pretty rare that I would touch anyone's stomach (male, female, adult, child, etc.) unless I was asked to do so. Whoever this is, they want to fuck you. You gotta confront them about it.

[Asker]

I can give you more details.

She is the HR and i joined around 2.5-3 months ago. We went to a club to celebrate the first anniversary of our company. We were around 25 people or so.

Me and my coworker and her friend (also a coworker, a girl) were at the exit hall of the club. They were talking about something and i was hanging back. Then she grabbed my arm and pulled me towards her and then placed her hand on my tummy and kept it there. Kinda like how couples take pics where the girl has her hand on the guy’s stomach. I got really nervous and leaned back from her so hand didn't touch me anymore. she noticed that and put her again on my tummy.

No words were said during that. She was facing me and looking at me while saying nothing and i was facing slightly to the side to her and looking at the ground.
Now I’m not sure why she did that but i had never had a girl do something like this, and i wouldn't really consider it as normal or friendly.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, that kinda seems like she was aggressively letting you know she's interested. She probably wanted to kiss you or at the very least wanted validation that you were into her in the same way she was into you.

[Asker]

Why would she want to kiss me if she doesn't know me at all? I think she might have just given me a hint like you ssid

[Vikkrram]

Then i would say might be her habbit of doin it so frequently

[rachel776]

[Asker]

Sex?