Ladies, what would you tell your son if he was getting punched multiple times by a woman?

[chris_987]

Would you tell him to fight back or turn the other cheek?

[Anonymous]

It definitely depends on the situation.

If she's abusing him, he needs to get out ASAP. Put that bitch in jail.

If they're in an argument that just got really heated, she has 1-3 hits with him telling her to stop and trying to prevent physical escalation before he has a right to hit her back in self defense.

If they're just play fighting then as long as no one is getting hurt, there isn't really an issue there. And if it does hurt, they should say something and stop immediately. I've had boyfriends who I would play fight with and we would hit each other, wrestle or whatever, but it never got to the point that either of us was actually hurt or angry. It was never toxic. In most cases it kinda just escalated to sex.

[chris_987]

Do you like to play fight?

[Molly1997]

I’d want him to tell me so I can contact that lady and find out what’s going on

[chris_987]

So men shouldn't hit women back under no circumstances?

[Molly1997]

I guess I was being motherly and thinking if my son, a boy, I’d want to contact his mother 😂. But if he’s a grown man and a women is already hitting him yea put her to the ground lol not that a man should need to apply much force to do that I wouldn’t think

[chris_987]

Well Even if he's a boy he should defend himself. Because if you go talk to the girls mother it's not like she's going to do anything to make her daughter stop hitting men. Growing up a lot of girls did that because they liked the guy so they associated violence with love. Maybe they come from an abusive household so talking to the mother is just going to expose her abuse.

[Molly1997]

I’ve not personally seen women hitting men for that reason , sounds dumb. In my personal experience calling the parents DOES work lol

[chris_987]

Maybe you grew up in a good neighborhood, but in poor classes where the father isn't home. A lot of young women are pretty violent, so sounds like you've never experienced those types of women.

[Molly1997]

I have not

[chris_987]

So Your knowledge is limited