but its so weird as i've never once ever seen her there and i've been going there off and on for a couple years. she mentioned it on the weekend when talking to some girlfriend's that she had been there last summer.
but when i asked her last summer if she had been there she said no and didn't seem to have any connection or interest in that gym. although i had seen a couple of her gfs there before which was why i wondered if she had been too
but makes little sense? was she lying to me or didn't want me to know she went there but i was also a member so wouldn't i have eventually seen her there one day? but doesn't sound like she is a member now but had been there in the past
also we live in a small city so is like only 1 or 2 other smaller gyms here so not a lot of choice if you want to work out
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maybe she lied to girlfriend that she been there
maybe she doesn't remember
maybe she doesn't want you to know and think she was there cause of you
why does it even matter?
her girlfriend's never said she had been there or told me anything about her and that gym , i had seen a couple girls she knew there last year at various times.
when she talked about this last weekend her memory seemed pretty clear , talked about how her legs got tired if she worked out before work and had seen the owner there who the girls were talking about cause he also owns a restaurant one worked at before.
pretty sure she didn't want me to know much if anything about what she did outside of the place i knew her so of course she didn't want me to know she went there but still i wasn't even a member for most of last summer as i took a break so wasn't any chance i'd be there when she was working out so why would it even matter if i knew she liked to work out in her free time?
maybe she senses you want more with her and she doesn't, so she is putting the barriers
she had previously asked me to do a shot with her at the bar it was during x mas break so 2021 i think , it seemed like she wanted my attention originally , then she got annoyed with me during 2022 for some unknown reason
i just find it weird that i've never once seen her at that gym and i've been a member there off and on for over 6 years i think and she's always lived here so seems off i've never seen her there once this whole time
I would not jump to conclusions about hearsay, if u r regular and if she went there ud see her, so maybe she didn't, or maybe she did long time ago when u werent a memeber but she forgot. Anyways of nowdays she doesn't seem to want to be your friend id let it go, if she doesn't want u near let her go
Why do you even care?
cause i wondered about this last year if she was a member or not. we were supposedly friends at the time so seems odd to not tell me the truth , you think she would of been glad we had something in common but instead she didn't even want me to know she had ever even been in the gym which is bizarre is it appears she was in fact a member back then