Do women love becoming a single mother?

[Anonymous]

seeing that many of them turned into single mothers in their early to mid 20s. It's popular and i don't get what's so exciting about becoming and being a single mother.

If i was a woman i would avoid getting pregnant by any means necessary and go as far as getting abortions and IUD or tubal ligation (involving a medical travel if i have to).

[DextroShade]

Children raised by single mothers have worse outcomes in every way they can measure: they are more likely to drop out of school, go to prison, end up homeless, get addicted to drugs, and commit suicide. Nearly all mass shooters come from single mother households. Being a single mother is both stupid and selfish, marry before you carry ladies!

[Apple1996]

That is because single moms and their kids lack support. Stop blaming them and start supporting them

[DextroShade]

@Apple1996 they get child support from their fathers and welfare from the state. Single fathers manage to do a better job without any welfare, as children raised by single dads have better outcomes than those raised by single mothers, although obviously a two-parent household is ideal. I will not reward single mothers for raising deadbeats, thugs, and degenerates; if they want support they should get it from their child's father. If they had a kid by some loser they don't deserve support.

[Apple1996]

Money is not support. And single dads raise better kids cause they tend to have more support from society and also many of them do not start out single dads like with a little newborn like single moms do. These dads get their kids at like 9 when they are already halfway raised.

[DextroShade]

@Apple1996 money absolutely is support, that why the payments men make to their baby mommas and ex wives are literally called child SUPPORT. There is nothing that a mother needs for raising her child that money cannot get her with ONE exception: an involved father. Considering that women decide which men get to reproduce and initiate 80% of divorces she only has herself to blame if there is no dad around, either because she chose a deadbeat loser or she had a decent man and got rid of him.

As for your other argument, those years after 9 are the most critical for determining the child's odds of success later in life, so your argument only bolsters my position that single dads do better. Also single dads do NOT enjoy more support from society with many reporting that they are treated with suspicion by women at places they take their kids like playgrounds, etc.

[Apple1996]

The first 0-6 years of a child's life is the most important for development. It's been proven that after 7 a child's personality is fully formed and basically can never change. So those teen years aren't really much besides them branching off and exploring life.

[Apple1996]

And women cannot choose a good father if they are with a man that's never been a father before its impossible to tell if they'll be a good or bad dad

[Apple1996]

Women are happy to become single mothers if they were in a abusive relationship

[CoolCatMar1]

Nope