Why are you labeled an incel for even disagreeing with a woman?

[Deserter]

[reds-noro]

Most likely because trolls like to throw it at everyone they can find. Haven't really heard much of it honestly. Maybe it's where you are (be it where you are irl or where on the internet you interact the most with social media).

While looking through the comments on here though... Let's just say that you shouldn't listen to at least half of these knuckleheads.

[Sixgunsound]

It's the same tactic used by many people when their argument fails or they never had anything but talking points and marching orders received from an external source to begin with. If you can't beat the argument attack the speaker until they shut up. It's a very immature and amateur way of approaching debate, because it shows someone with more experience that the one trying to eliminate the opponent instead of beating the argument is a waste of time.

[AnusNdaPainus]

Because women don’t know much about men besides the fact that we want sex

they think all men are controlled by our desires and are incapable of self control

so they believe pointing out our inability to gain sex is a dig at our manhood

but “incel” isn’t really an insult when it comes from a woman who does not know who we are as men

Would you really respect the opinions of women who see men as nothing more than a penis dragging around a body?

[Thatpearl26]

I don’t know. I personally try my best to respect people if I’m in a disagreement with them. However it may depend on the topic that you disagreed with. It could have been dear or important to them so they act rash if others don’t have the same mindset.

[Sixgunsound]

In the west at the moment there are lots of real problems with difficult soluyltions. Rather that try to work too hard, the people with access to the levers of power would rather distract the public for as long and as cheaply as possible until it is no longer their responsibility to do things that are controversial or unpopular or expensive, so they make us fight over ever more ridiculous nonsense until they are eligible for a pension and can ride off into the sunset. This laziness and lack of what founder and former president Thomas Jefferson called 'manly firmness' the resolve and will to act with conviction and purpose to correct a bad situation, is contributing to the end of the American way of life. If we have to argue and fight with our neighbors, which I do not think we need to, we should be arguing and fighting about legitimate issues like fentanyl and human trafficking and living wages in the biggest inflationary period in human history, not the sexual proclivities of consenting adults or what names attention whores who are not special want to be called this week. We need our neighbors more than we need the aristocracy, and it is time we stop dancing on their puppet strings.

[VadeinVain]

You actually aren't, not by people with brains at least. "Incels" believe women owe them sex and that they're lonely for no reason. That they're inherently losers even though being an asshole is in their control. Despite seeing women for their physical features only, they should be looked at differently. They consider the world unfair because they should apparently be adored as a basic human right. Women who are calling you this don't know what they are talking about unless that's how you think and you won't admit to it.

[ericclayton]

It's a slur like "jerk" or "poopyhead" that's thrown around, it doesn't mean anything. For example, Jordan Peterson has been crowned "King of the Incels" by a dumb Hollywood type, even though he's wholeheartedly opposed to incel ideology.

[KingslayerC]

Same reason we get labelled as a racist, bigots, sexist, Nazi, commie, pedo, transphobe and homophobe. People like to throw insults at each other when they are mad at you, and they get to pretend to be doing so with an honorable intent.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

If you haven't learned by now how pointless it is to argue with a woman, then you clearly aren't spending much time with them. Which only leaves one conclusion to draw...

[Billlewis]

Anytime a woman calls me an incel, for any reason, I'm exceedingly grateful to have that label applied to me, because I know I'm not worthy even to kiss her feet.

[Deserter]

Ok simp, you're blocked

[Anonymous]

Because women don't like it when you force them to take a good look at who they really are. So they think calling a guy an incel is the lowest insult they can bestow upon him. 😆 You can always tell when they're just trying to hurt you because it's almost always a knee-jerk response to something you said. They can almost never give you a rationale for how they arrived at that conclusion. Because when women get emotional thier logic typically goes all to hell. 😆

[ProbablyClueless]

Well... the short answer is because a lot of women are much more abusive people than they realize.

[kylee2437]

You aren’tlabeled as an incel for disagreeing with women, you are typically labeled an incel for expressing opinions about women in a two year old emotional immature manner.

[Deserter]

No, any sort of criticism of women. And you just proved it with that little outburst

[kylee2437]

@deserter what little outburst? I am explaining why men typically get called an incel. Victimizing yourself over a word is weird beyond

[Deserter]

No, women just write off any criticism of them as that

[kylee2437]

@deserter not true. Very rarely do I use the word incel to begin with, but there’s a lot of those on this website.

[Deserter]

I'm pointing out what I've seen

[kylee2437]

@deserter is that because you live your life on this app?

[Deserter]

Why are you so upset?

[kylee2437]

Who said I’m upset? I’m just pointing out that the word incel is just often used on social media - so maybe you just spend too much time on social media in general

[Deserter]

Is that what it is? Or were you trying to make a snide remark?

[kylee2437]

I clearly said what my intentions were - but if the shoe fits, wear it

[Deserter]

Yeah, you're salty about what I said, thanks for proving my point

[kylee2437]

Who said I’m salty? You are here because you are salty and victimized yourself over a word that you claim doesn’t apply to you. Weird, right?

[Deserter]

You don't have to say it, it's obvious. You try to say I live online cause I point out something I see all the time lmao

[kylee2437]

There’s men clearly not bothered by this word in other replies- so it’s a word you take personally for a reason

[Deserter]

Yeah, that's not how it works, babe. If I call someone a fucking moron they're gonna get pissed, even if they know they're smart. You're being manipulative

[kylee2437]

If someone takes it personally they are going to get pissed. So if this word has no value to you, why did you ask an entire question towards it?

[Deserter]

Ok, you're a fucking retard, kylee

[kylee2437]

Whatever you say. You proved my point that you express yourself with emotionally immaturity. Maybe go work on that buddy.

[Deserter]

Says the girl that got upset and tried insulting me but doesn't have the balls to own up to it.

Just stating facts, nothing emotional about it, maybe it just upsets you.

[kylee2437]

Why wouldn’t I own up to insulting you? Lol dude you aren’t that important. It’s so odd that you think you hold some level of superiority. Pure projection on your end

[Deserter]

aren't that important, there you go again

[kylee2437]

You are projecting onto everyone in the comments, so maybe learn how to maturely express yourself. You talk about women on a daily basis

[Deserter]

Try again passive aggressive

[kylee2437]

Yeah everyone that’s calling you out is passive aggressive.

[bobcat57]

Sounds like you might be an incel

[Deserter]

Sounds like you're passive aggressive

[bobcat57]

Sorry, I wasn’t trying to be passive

[Anonymous]

Because women can’t handle criticism

[LiamJHayden]

Why care?

[kylee2437]

I notice he didn’t answer your question, interesting

[Deserter]

He didn't answer mine, why do either of you care?