Why does it feel like my sister in law, (aka my wife's brother's wife) is eye fucking me?

[Anonymous]

My sister in law remembered my birthday and, she was the only one to wish me a happy birthday at family gathering. We catch each other's eyes quit a lot. Funny thing is, it's like she knows my favorite color is green so she put on a green dress. I love my wife and wish to never to lose her. How should I handle this professionally?

[OlderAndWiser]

1. This is not a "professional" matter.

2. Every time you have an encounter with your sister-in-law, make a comment - when it's just the two of you - about how happy you are with your wife and how you are both working to keep your relationship alive and strong. She will get the message.

[purplepoppy]

I used to know this old woman with a glass eye. Unable to perform sex the natural way she'd let her younger lover use her eyesocket.

He wasn't in town much but she always kept an eye out for him.

[boggboss]

How do u need to ask what to do simply treat her like family or a friend