Do most women realize how transparent they are?

[Anonymous]

[BobLouis]

a lot of guys butter them up too much. When you have a workout buddy they can hold you accountable for not going to the gym and being lazy. A workout buddy can be useless because they will keep you motivated.

When a bunch of guys tell her she's the best thing in the world and butter her up it's hard for her to tell when she's doing something wrong.

[Asker]

So you're saying women have a hard time with reality of who they are?

[BobLouis]

No it's just a lack of awareness. I am sure they can handle constructive criticism. But because most guys will only say nice things it gets hard for her to be aware of those actions.

It's like a child who is constantly told they are being annoying. Eventually the child learns when it is not okay to do something. But if they are never told these things they just grow up to repeat the same mistakes.

Kids don't have any filter so they will tell you straight to your face, but most adults want to be polite so they won't tell that person they are annoying, so that person will repeat those mistakes.

Women can learn how to deal with it and adapt to it.

[Yannishka]

Until my friends and colleagues tell me I am, no. They've called me mysterious and later on just hard to read, judging me or my actions wrong from time to time.

[Smashingdoozy]

People in general are pretty transparent. Unless they have a lot of trauma then they are a bit more difficult to read.

[Asker]

I think people with the most trauma sometimes are the easiest to read. Because they lead with those traumas.

[amanda4456]

I feel like we do realise. we just don't care. why hide who we are? if we did men would call us out and say we're hiding things, but if we're honest then were too 'transparent'. lose lose

[Asker]

😆😆😆 are you sure you're a woman? You got balls typing that with a straight face. Women lie constantly.

[amanda4456]

I can only speak for myself. Not who you’re dealing with 👀😂😂