Guys, if you argue with a woman what are the tells I should hide to not show Im about to cry?

[Anonymous]

If I have a fight with a guy they can usually tell very well when Im about to cry.. evan some minute before evan I realize it myself.

They will just stop arguing and say they know I will start crying and they dont like to see me in pain. But I don't wanna look weak so how do I stop from giving away any signs of needing to cry and just walk away instead? What are some commen tells I might have?

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Anyone else?

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Why would you want to do that?
You're not a man. You don't need to be tough and stoic.
Crying is one of the many psychological advantages women have over men.
A woman starts crying and the argument is over. The guy feels like an ass and usually ends up apologizing.
Cry to your little heart's content and don't be ashamed of it

[Asker]

Yeah I know thats what I dont like. I dont want them to see me as less

[Asker]

Its not a good look on me I'm already petite I dont want them to see me as less and loose respect for me

[Asker]

any tip?

[WanderingLoveWizard]

No one's gonna see you as less for crying. My tip is not to worry about it.
Crying is hot too

[Asker]

How is it hot?

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I don't know, it just is. It's feminine and cute

[Asker]

Hmm..
I have a hard time accepting i won't loose respect because of it.. like people kinda gotta fear me to respect me. But ok thank you

[WanderingLoveWizard]

That's not a good mindset. No one will respect you trying to be something you're not. It's transparent when a girl tries to act tough and it's a little ridiculous.
But you don't have to listen to me

[Asker]

I know... I think my mind is like that cause I view it like what women are attarcted too not through the male lense

[MementoMori777]

you must have a facial expression or unique facial feature that gives it away, this made me feel bad tho 😂

[Asker]

Why the laughing emoji then?

Anyways how do I hide it?

[MementoMori777]

cause i dont wanna look like a pussy with sympathy, that all depends tho on how he can tell first, just look angry no matter how offended you are, maybe its when you stop arguing back, he knows he hit a nerve?

[Asker]

Oh yeah that makes sense. Thank you!

[Asker]

And that wouldn't make you one but I get it

[MementoMori777]

no problem anon, hope you can hide your crying i guess

[Asker]

Will do my best👍🏻

[MementoMori777]

🤣👍

[inhua]

so is this crocodile tears then?

[Asker]

No its real tears. I hate crying infront of men because they will start seeing me as some weak baby or whatever

[inhua]

do you know you can control your crying right?

[Asker]

No.. he can tell im about to cry before I evan start and then he won't leave me alone

[inhua]

any emotion that isn't calm is bound to lead to crying

[Asker]

So how do I get away from him?

[Asker]

.. when I'm about to cry

[inhua]

you can either run away or control your crying. there's no magic spell that can help you here

[Asker]

I can't run away he block the door. He never lets me be alone when im upset cause he is afraid i will hurt myself. But that just makes me wanna do it more.

I'll guess I'll just try to change the subject if it happens