Girls, my girlfriend won't talk about our problems. She gets angry when I bring them up. What do I do?

[Anonymous]

Girls, my girlfriend won't talk about our problems. She gets angry when i bring them up. What do i do?

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Please answer the fucing question

[Anonymous]

Talk about it at a time when she probably wouldn't just get up and leave the room. For example, during breakfast or dinner, in the car, when you're out in public somewhere, when you're taking a walk together... be firm about it and tell her it's unfair that she won't listen to you. Both people have needs in a relationship, and constant communication plus respect towards the other person are two big ones that she's skimping on at the moment. You both deserve to voice your opinions. Try asking her why she gets angry when you bring these things up; remind her that you're not trying to blame or accuse her of anything, you just want to resolve the issues you've been having.

Another idea is to write her a letter or an email telling her your feelings and opinions. Tell her you'd like her to read it on her own time and with a clear mind.

[4B0R3DP3S0N]

Just be there. Just quietly stand beside her or next to her rub her back. She needs to know that you'll be there. Give her some hugs from the back. If she's angry and tell you to go away, just walk a couple feet and sit on a chair and wait for her to calm before you approach. She'll eventually crack when she realizes your dedication

[Anapinacola]

She is being childish, but if she wants to act like a little brat, fine by you. Don't bring it up if she doesn't want to put any effort in your relationship you shouldn't do all the work. If she really wanted to work things out she would push past her pettiness and speak what's on her mind

[Asker]

When n we talk about it, she will tell me everything that she wants to say and then when i want to tell her how i feel about the situation and what has been on my mind, she gets up and leaves

[Anapinacola]

She should not be ignoring your feelings. You said the fight was 2 weeks ago? Talk to her again if this is your first time bringing things up, but if this always becomes a thing then there is no need to create a pattern. Let her alone for now, but when the right time comes, you put your foot down and tell her that she owes it to you to listen cause you do the same for her

[love2run13]

Sit her down and make her talk about them and threaten to leave if she doesn't. Avoiding them and getting angry will solve nothing.

[Sujin95]

I've always tried to talk to my boyfriend about our problems but it got confused.
So I dont give a fuck actually..
I dunno what will happen lol im waiting

[Anonymous]

She has to be a grown up and face them. Or she needs to find a new boyfriend

[Anonymous]

just give her time.

[Asker]

Its been almost 2 weeks since the fight