My girlfriend is annoyed at me but she won't admit it, how do I approach it?

[Anonymous]

She seems to be annoyed,I don't know why because when we were texting last night she wasn't herself. I'm seeing her later how do I go about it? She's definitely annoyed :?

[1-3-2-4]

I have something like this going on but not a girlfirend yet just she is very touchy and flirty with me but man after I told her older sister about me she like shut down.. she's very annoyed with me.. 4 weeks and not speaking.. everyone said to give her time and her older sister herself said to give her time and she will come around.. but damn how long is "give her some time?"

I gave her a single rose on V-day and I did not get a direct thank you.. I wish she would just come out and tell me what she's annoyed about.. it would make thing so damn simple.. I asked her on the phone and facebook was she mad at me and both times she said no.. in my mind annoyed and mad are in the same boat..

but for me to say hi to her when she's less then 6 inches in front of me and just turns her head real quick and walks away makes me upset.

[Phoenix52]

Well, something happened last night over at her friends place. She was cheerful and jittery with you during the day, then BLAMO? Wasn't herself?

Yeah, something put her in a sour mood, and only she knows. If she doesn't wanna talk about it, you can physically connect with a cuddle.

But if you really want to know, then be more direct and agressive with it by saying "I wanna know what's wrong". Get the truth out of her. My guess though is, it might have something to do with the relationship. Maybe one of her jerkoff friends said she 'deserves better' than you. And if that's the case, your girlfriend should know better and tell her to shut the f*ck up.

[blufrenzy93]

When you're with her, casusally ask her if everything's alright. She'll probably deny it and ask why you asked. You tell her you sense something may be bothering her. If she still denies, then leave it be. Either nothing is really wrong with her or she'll come to you when she's ready.

[Anonymous]

my boyfriend is doing this exactly right now. he is very busy and I feel like I'm annoying him. she's probably either really busy or has a lot on her mind. just tell her you are there for her if she wnats to talk IF anything is bugging her. don't bug her about it and suffocate her.

[Felynn]

I also act like that sometimes lol. Be super nice to her. Maybe ask her if she's feeling OK.

Don't ignore her until she feels better. That'll p*ss her off more. She probably wants your attention and wants you to show that you really care.

[Anonymous]

She probably is just PMSing. Just be extremely nice.

[Asker]

No I dnt think so because she was fine and cheerful earlier in the day(txting like) and she went out to her friends and she wasn't herself.Its almost like she doesn't wanna talk to me or because most replys are very blunt and just one liners and also I know its not that big a deal but she's giving me like 3 x's less than she usually does.

[Opinion Owner]

Just be nice and extremely cuddly.

[Asker]

do I mention anything about it?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't think you should. Just be nice, and cuddly, and caring :)

[Anonymous]

give her some time. she might be going through some things that have nothing to do with you