Girls how do you feel when the guy you find attractive ignores and avoids you? All of sudden like before you and him had banter and joking?

[Philosophy78]

All of sudden he ignores you and does not even greet you or say morning or hello to you.

[HappyWoman34]

I always figure actions speak louder than words, but ignoring someone is a pretty big action, so I’d take it that I’m not wanted or needed, so I should look elsewhere. So I do. Out of respect to the guy and to myself.

[provokeesmokee]

If he's fully ignoring me, I'll take the hint and move on.

If he comes crying to me later, too bad, so sad. I've moved on. 🤷🏾

[Boomchakalaca]

He probs found a chick to bang 👋🏼 id stop talking to him then and there.

[Anonymous]

I cut him out of my life. There’s no way I’m speaking to him or looking at him ever again.

[Philosophy78]

I understand you. But we have been a relationship or we haven't ever dated. Also it's not like he swore at me or called me names he just ignores me

[Philosophy78]

We haven't been in relationship I meant*

[Opinion Owner]

If I accept his behavior then he will think it’s okay to ignore me further down in our relationship and even during marriage. So I personally will not tolerate it.

[Philosophy78]

Fair enough. What would you do if you see him on a daily basis as we work together in the same place?

[Opinion Owner]

Act like he’s not even there. He’s just a ghost.

[Philosophy78]

Okay. Has any similar situation ever happened to you?

[Jazzy54]

I actually went through this. What an asshole… 😒

[Philosophy78]

Can you tell me what happened please if you don't mind?

[Jazzy54]

It’s a long story, but in short, I liked him for about a year and a half. He was so nice at first, but i slowly saw his true colors. The feelings weren’t mutual, but he was an asshole about it.

[Philosophy78]

When you said true colors do you mean ignoring you or avoiding you

[Jazzy54]

Pretty much. He could’ve handled the situation differently, but he showed how much of a jerk he was.

[Philosophy78]

The guy I'm talking about, what he does is just avoids me and just fully ignores me.