What does it mean if an older woman buys you things?

[Anonymous]

what does it mean if an older woman buy you things? I have this older women who got me a PS5 and I think she think where dating. She keep trying to get me to come to her home she like 50 I am 25. She look good at 50

she keep say I am cute. also she seem to miss her dead husband and that fact that her son is 30 and he move out and she home alone a lot. she like that I young and have young muscle. She seem to think I like her son cause I play video game like her son.

She keep want to buy me thing. But I have my own job and car and money and things.

She where a lot dress now in the summer time. She did not do that back when it snowing. She want me come over and do thing for her a lot. She try get me take her out to movie on the weekend.

she have me doing all guy stuff for here like mowing and washing her car. cleaning gutter.

I not sure what all this mean. Sometime she come to my work. I can not use the gift she give me cause I work a lot and not have time to play. Also she not good at any games. she also got me a wach and a suit and new clothing.

what dose this mean? why she buy me a lot gift? Is she try to date me or be my mommy?

[Meropatrick]

Maybe she likes u and wants to pamper you. Some women act like that. There is a lot of things that r missing in this story. Like did she do anything sexual or clear that is flirting. Saying u r cute is not enough. Maybe she is lonley and is longing for a man's company. Her buying u a ps5 seems that she doesn't see as a partner but she is treating u like a son. A woman who is interested in a man sexually would buy a perfume or a tie not a toy

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Don't let her do that. You're playing with her feelings. She's a lonely widow and you're leading her on.

[DizzyDesii]

You should have never accepted the gif if you didn't want to become her future boyfriend or future son replacement 😂 Lady has issues and she's turned you into her sugar baby

[Sweetsurprize]

Troll.

[Asker]

yes your right

[Kingship]

First off, you did not give us enough information. Or at least for me to properly deduct her as best as possible.

So, use deductive reasoning to find out with 5 Ws. Who • What • When • Where • Why.
You do that,
But, read her with your intuition (I know based a lot on mine because of experience),
But, you don't have to have lots of experience to find reasoning/ her purpose behind her actions.

Is SHE leading you on?
YOU MUST KNOW

Who is gaming who?

Does she act dominant?
Masculinzed women- she commands you to do things (disrespectful no matter what the tone/demeanor is because it she is treating you like a dog 'do this') Which concludes, why is she acting that way?

Chances this stems from loneliness thus:

She is using you for attention and validation.
When women are lonely, they become easier. This is a fact, aside from if you have extremely good game, every woman is freaking easy. So, ask yourself based on previous experience and how receptive she is when you distance yourself?

When you get close, does she buy you less stuff and have an attitude of not wanting to do much and is she disrespectful.
But then when you are close and doing what she wants, is she content?

KNOW WHO IS GAMING WHO.
This is part of the dance of the sexes.
Someone is gaming the other.
There is not inbetween especially the association.
If not sexually, she is exploiting you until (if ever) she finds a man.
Don't use your emotions to deduct this.
That will decieve you.
Use you rationality brother.
Trust me.
If you gave me more information, I would tell, but not enough information.

But remember:
You are a guy, treat yourself like a King, so if you want to fuck her, sure.
And check for signs of self-harming behaviors (e. g. lots of tats, crazy her color, modifications like tongue pierce (if so she is a tongue slut.))

But, there is a cost for everything.
Think about what she is doing with her actions.
Chances are she is manipulating you for attention and validation because she is that lonely.
Don't let her exploit you, it will hurt your Masculine Pride, and that is essential for a man to live with dignity which makes life worth living since it makes everthing else worth the effort.
Does she respect or disrespect you.
Esploitation for attention and validation by giving you stuff and she is rich (as in she is not really sacrificing to be with you, then I bet she is.)

Don't think 'warm thoughts' like be sympathetic.
Women date opportunistically.
This is the truth.
Experience enough and this is the truth, not a fact.
And 'not all women are like this' bullshit

This post ain't perfect, especially since you gave plain answers.

So to conclude, depends on she treats you when you guys are close and when you guys are distant (not trying to confuse at all, but it may change if you guys are distant because she is with others, so then chances are as I said, she is using you for attention and validation. And if she is sexually receptive to your escalation, she is sexually interested in you (sees you as a lover. ))

Note: Don't pay attention to what she (a woman says) watch their actions.
This will demystify the 'mysterious creatures' as people with simple desires and needs.
(Interesting case)
Gauge her interests levels.
How receptive is she to you, and don't let someone control you.
Fuck her because she is giving you stuff?
Pathetic, selling yourself for stuff.
Selling your attention and validation for a *video games toys* grow the f*ck up.

Know your worth.
She is sexual with you or not.
And if you don't do things for her, is she still receptive, and sexual to you.
If she withholds she because you don't obey her like a little f*cking b**ch then she is using you and does not have genuine desire you.

Don't let a woman exploit you. If you truly want her and she is sexually receptive to you, f*ck her brains and make her your personal s*ut. That sky ain't the limit.
If you still want gifts like a little boy, stop wasting her time and your time.
And mature the f*ck up.
Peace.
Use your brain to think, not your heart nor emotions.
Rationality over emotions.
That are not intertwined necessarily, ask why why why to find out the real reason.

So to end this be real with yourself and with her, state what you want from her and ask her why she is asking you to do things, She how she changes her behavior, justifying or triyng to make you qualify,-answer her questions and deflecting yours, dismiss the b*tch.

At the end of the day, what the f*ck with this post.
CHASE YOUR GOALS AND MISSION IN LIFE.
Think like a King, not a submissive little helper.

[Asker]

I move on from her for a girl who use me for money. and now another girl I move on. I Think I want be by my self and work on my self.
I sick of girl who just want money and can not work and just give sex it so sick. Any way I have a women say thing like how I kill her son and my dog and how I am a a piece of work. She right about me being crap. But I never hurt her son a women ran her over. I think she just say it to get me to leave her alone. Also I have a girl that poor and want food and rides and stuff from me. I sick of it all I need a good women with a job that dose sleep with guys as her job.

I need a job and help my self. Any thank you.

[Kingship]

Gotcha brother. No problem, if you got another question, I'll do my best to answer, also I think I can receive mails of this page if someone messages me.

And, it something about the 'sexual market place' or the dating world is something about foreign men.
I read a statistic somewhere were modern women-western brainwashed women like foreign men more because they are easier to manipulate.

Every person deserves dignity in their life, but many steal the chance to have a life that is worthy of such.

Any women that asks you favors early on is trying to exploit you, or any man.

And a rule to live by: If you guys aren't f**king, then don't do sh*t for her.
Why? because you friendzone yourself.

A way a woman can stop being a modern women is to be trained, molded by a man, but that requires a strong man, physically, mentally moreso, and spiritually-so does not rely on weak-indulges to uplift or keep him afloat.

I recommend focusing on yourself and something about dating is its all about leadership.

Anyone that tells you sexual relations are equal or men and women in a relation are equal are lying.

I believe in you brother, if you say you believe you are crap then you are. But, if you change your thoughts, which precede your actions, then you are on your path to a better life.

And in order to not fall into the fallacy 'hAppY wIFe haPpY lIfe,' don't believe in the lies. You got this brother.

[Asker]

I could just follow or dm you if I need anything else. Sorry my righting is so bad I skip over worlds a lot.

[Kingship]

Sure

[SoJust]

Dude, the woman is putting you in the place of her stepson, and she can sleep with you later, you can be lovers, if the woman is a sexy woman like brandi love, I say don't miss this opportunity, man, even I'm excited :D

[Kingship]

However that complex is weird on many levels. Whoever is started this thread, its serves a nice reminder to not don't do something you don't want to do.
Respect >>> sex.

[Anonymous]

[California_Poppy]

She's probably lonely and lookin for a snack. 🤣
You should make it clear you're not interested or put some distance between you.

[John_Doesnt]

The only time women buy things for a guy is if he has a big shlong. So basically you were blessed with a large sausage and you'll never have to work a day in your life.

[worldscolide]

She probably expects you to fuck her. Never accept gifts like that, They always have strings attached.

[Asker]

ok maybe sex not such a bad thing.

[worldscolide]

No, and if you're an adult and consenting, i see no issues with it.

[clampfan101]

Maybe you remind her of her husband when they were your age.
(And if you don’t want the PS5, I’ll take it off your hands. lol)

[Anonymous]

If you are allowing it to continue then you’re consenting. If it’s uncomfortable, then tell her and then walk away. If you’re just trying make sense of it but you feel comfortable, then roll with it.

[Anonymous]

She sounds like a sugar momma. or trying to buy your love. Personally, it's kind of creepy that her son is only 5years older then you.

[In_Trance]

It means she's materialistic and has nothing else to offer you

[Hardworkingguy]

It probably means that she wants something in return

[Anonymous]

Probably she wants you, have coiotus with her

[chicken_nugget24]

A sugar mummy

[Jazzy54]

Cougar.

[shades777]

means she's your mom

[Minahh]

Mommy 🤑