You have a friend and she's female, and she buys you something every now and again. Not a material possession, like food - snacks and candy, etc.
Do you usually let it go to your head and assume she has a crush on you, or are you just face value grateful?
There's a guy who is my friend first and foremost but I also have a thing for him... I heard him say he was hungry, so when I went to get food I got him something as well.
When I handed it to him he said "you shouldn't have!" With a big grin on his face. I honestly meant it as a nice gesture and not a "I have a crush on you" gesture, but I'm worried he took it for the latter and didn't see it as was: a friend buying a friend food.
And I just don't want him to think our relationship is getting weird because he's taken and sooo unavailable, but our friendship is progressing and Id be sad if a nice gesture made him feel awkward and set things back
Do you usually let it go to your head and assume she has a crush on you, or are you just face value grateful?
There's a guy who is my friend first and foremost but I also have a thing for him... I heard him say he was hungry, so when I went to get food I got him something as well.
When I handed it to him he said "you shouldn't have!" With a big grin on his face. I honestly meant it as a nice gesture and not a "I have a crush on you" gesture, but I'm worried he took it for the latter and didn't see it as was: a friend buying a friend food.
And I just don't want him to think our relationship is getting weird because he's taken and sooo unavailable, but our friendship is progressing and Id be sad if a nice gesture made him feel awkward and set things back
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