GIRLS- how do u become friends with a guy you like?

[Anonymous]

I need help. Have crush at job. I know people say oh guys have to pursue girl if he like her and girls can’t pursue guy. But how I’ll be his friend as I’ll need make excuse to talk to him as we are strangers? I also don’t want flirt just be a friend. How can girls be a guys friend without them sensing you like him? I see many guys at my job friends with girls.

[Anonymous]

Easy, give him false hope by being super friendly then friend zone him.

I guarantee those guys are still holding onto the idea that one day those girls will like them and give them a chance

[Asker]

I have no guy friends at job I need help 😞

[Opinion Owner]

Well first start by accepting that there might be no way around him thinking you like him.
Unfortunately in the modern age, men get so little attention from women, it's impossible not make those kind of assumptions

[Opinion Owner]

You could try calling him "dude" and "bro" to make it clear, but that's extremely cringe and he probably won't wanna be your friend.
Other than that, just talk to him and be a nice girl. If he tries to make a move, tell him you don't like him like that and I'm sure he'll continue to be your friend

[Opinion Owner]

The last thing I can think of is he might not think yoite attractive anyway and you won't have that problem. Then you shoud be able to be friends with no confusion

[Opinion Owner]

That's all I got without bullshitting you

[Anonymous]

Just talk to him like a normal friend. Once you get to know him determine if you actually like him or he's just a pretty face. 🤷‍♀️

[Asker]

Yea but I feel guys can sense if u like them. Also at my job many guys r friends only with girsl they like.

[Asker]

Wen I was young I never had crushes like me back and once they sensed I like them they would run away no longer like me. 😞

[Opinion Owner]

How could they sense that you like them? Are u flirting with them?

[Asker]

Well wen I was 13 my friend classmate found out I liked him as I said soemthing flirty. Then he stopped being my friend ran away from me.

Then in highschool wen I was 17 I tried talk to a guy that didn’t have any classes with me but we walked same route exit leave , I wasn’t flirty but I was nice and he would laugh with his friend making fun of me once I saw that. Also my friend had him in one of his classes and I guess he heard him talk shit of me like I’m weird n ugly or creepy trying stalk talk to him so he alerted me to no longer try talk to him

[Asker]

That’s y I’m 26 no boyfriend. I don’t have 100 guys asking to be my boyfriend chasing me. No guy likes me back and wants be my girlfriend meet my family nothing.

[Asker]

I always wanted have first boyfriend at 15 n another boyfriend at 18,21,23, etc n I cud never be that girl that got easy any boyfriend wenever she wanted.

[Opinion Owner]

Avoid those guys like the plague. If he disrespects you it's best to just avoid him. Look for a man that respects you.

[Asker]

I’m scared cuz now after 8 years have a crush at my job. I want try be his friend but we haven’t been able work near each other yet. At my job all girsl r friends with guys

[Asker]

I worry this guy will act same n sense I like him.

[Asker]

But if we work what each other it might not be weird n more natural

[Asker]

Near ***

[Asker]

That guy in highscool really traumatized me. 😞

[Asker]

Also my crush wen I was 13. All men run away from me.

[Asker]

I jsut had one boyfriend at 23 to now 25 but we never met family don’t live together so we r broken up right now as he don’t want baby never n I do.

[Asker]

I met him cuz we had same job together and he tried be my friend. Then with time we liked each other back.

[Asker]

The issue with crush at job is that even tho I worked in front of him 3x , after that we haven’t been able work near each other again or daily for him to see me n notice me. U get me? He doesn’t know me yet.

[In_Trance]

girls and guys can't be friends

[Anonymous]

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