How can you make a guy friend to like you?

[Juum_]

I have been friends with this guy for over a year, we met on a friend's trip, his friends told me that he likes me so I pulled away cause I was scared and he seemed to rush.

I pulled away for about 3 months and we then I texted him and we had good contact for like 5 months and I realise that he was so good and I like him so I confessed to him last December that I like him, he said that he no longer have feelings for me. Can I change this?

[MrOracle]

No, you can't make someone like you. You will learn that in life, there are many things where there is a brief window of time where you have an opportunity, and if you don't take advantage of that while it's available, that opportunity is often gone forever. You may have different opportunities that come along, but that one is lost.

When it comes to relationships in particular, you need to know what is important (morals, values, and life goals, for the most part), and you have to take your opportunities seriously and go after them. My guess is that he sees you as flakey and thus doesn't feel like he can trust you not to change your mind again, and that's a major deal breaker for men looking for a serious relationship.

[Mr_twoface]

You can’t make someone like you, however, tell them okey, want to become your best friend and hang out doing literally everything with them. That friendship may eventually lead to something more. Though be prepared that it can also end up becoming just friends and he will share feelings he has towards others with you and even share nightly encounters. Question is are you prepared to take that chance?

[DishLady]

in my opinion you can’t “make” a guy do things. He either wants to or doesn’t. Best to leave him alone for a while to figure himself out.

[HawkPerception]

Sorry to say it, but next time don't play hard to get. Most people are not turned on by someone distancing themselves from them. Most people like being desired.

[KrakenAttackin]

You played hard to get and lost him. Now you only want him because you can't have him. The moment he started to like you again. You would turn cold.

He realized you are just toying with him a d smartly moved on.

[Revolutioner_83]

Women can change because they can be impressed inner traits but men can not change their feelings.
i am sorry.

[SotiCoto]

Make him?
As in force him?
It isn't a question of whether you can or not, but you absolutely shouldn't because it is completely fucked up.

[ProbablyClueless]

All you can do is ease up and let things go where they will. You can't force feelings.

[RossyBoi]

No, you should stay friends with him.

No reason to ruin a good friendship for a silly crush.

[jahaims]

You can't make someone like you. Sounds like you missed your chance.

[Twalli]

Not really. He may redevelop feelings for you, but you can't hasten it.

[Staximus]

He obviously wasn't into playing games

[ThebestIndian]

Consistency should be the key.!