Can you make a guy want more than Friends with Benefits? If so, how?

We spend time together, he has dinner at my house a lot, chats to my mum, texts me about once a day, compliments me, I know his friends, he knows mine, we see movies and go to dinner together. To me, he's not wanting to commit because he's getting all the benefits of a relationship but I have no power to be angry if he sleeps with anyone else and he can come and go as he pleases. I've considered withdrawing myself as well as the sexual aspect and telling him that it's not fair to me because I'm starting to develop feelings and I feel as though it won't go in the direction I want it too. He's a lovely guy and I don't want to not have any relationship with him, I'm just curious as to if I can get my message across and potentially have him step it up a bit?
Yes you can. (Explain)
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Can you make a guy want more than Friends with Benefits? If so, how?
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