Real or fake? Can a guy really be friends with a girl as in only friendship?
Or will the girl have to be on the lookout every time she makes a guy friend?
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Let me tell you the cold, hard truth:
If a man* finds you physically attractive, he's virtually always going to want to have sex with you, and if he can, he will. Because that is true, most "guy friends" aren't really friends - they are guys who are hanging around a girl they find attractive and looking for an opportunity to be with her; usually just for sex, but sometimes because they have real feelings for her and want a relationship with her. But they aren't really "just friends."
If a man doesn't find you physically attractive, then he COULD be "just friends" with you, but in practice, this doesn't happen often.
Do exceptions to this rule exist: single men who are "just friends" with attractive women but wouldn't have sex with them even if the girl offered? Yes, a tiny number of such men exist, but they're merely the exceptions that prove the rule - they're 1 or 2% at most, and it's FAR more likely that your "guy friends" are in the 98% who want to bang you.
Men understand this very well - almost universally, in fact. Most women are either completely ignorant of it or are in complete denial. I believe that's because (most) women ARE capable of being platonic friends (in most cases), but most men simply aren't capable.
*and here, we're generally talking about SINGLE men, rather than men already in a relationship, and we're assuming they are attracted to women and not asexual. Someone always insists in bringing up these exceptions to the rule, and yeah, they exist, but such examples are rare in real life.
I have more friends that are girls that I do guys and of course with each one of these friends we have become very close and we could have talks on what we would rather have we would rather fuk and it not work out in a month or two and then we're not friends anymore forever this is when you have to be very mature and be able to answer that question are you really truly compatible or do you just want to have sex and pretending that you're compatible no it doesn't work out that way even with the friends that I have most of them and I we have talked about it I have a best friend that is a girl and there have been many times where we started to make out and have foreplay but I already stopped it I take that back she even stop it a couple times 2 if you're honest with each other you know the relationships not going to work in the long run and friendship is just better so it's not really a lie it's just not being honest how far you want to take it. Or being honest could it really work or not and if you know each other well enough you know whether it would work or not most of the time it won't if you're honest
It's like tossing a coin; no one side will end up all the time. As far as being on the lookout, it's best to keep your eyes wide open no matter what you do in life. Blind trust will generally backfire. Don't even ride in a fully automated automobile without someone in the driver's seat paying attention.
If you learn what his type is, and you fit that type, there's a greater likelihood of him catching feelings for you. This is less likely if you are different from his preference (ie heavy when he likes slender or big boobs when he likes small ones or smart when he likes dumb). Stay observant, and you'll see signs of any development before it is out of control.
I have a good number of female friends that I don't find physically attractive
Same as girl friends for guys.
So, in your case I suspect that it's a lie you tell.
It's possible to be just friends
It’s true in most cases but some are just friends
No not true
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