Do you think that it is 30 year old woman mistake if she is single?

[Anonymous]

I have heard about it. Men saying that it is women mistake if she is single is her 30s or late 20s. but how?

Because she was dating good looking dude? So women shouldn't date someone who they find attractive? Because for some reason a good looking can pump and dump you?

I mean if I started relationship with long term intention. Then isn't it his mistake if he lie?

And they always talk about giving chance to uglier nice guy. But how do you know if this niceness is fake or real. And ugly guy are capable of doing too. And second I used to be fat. I was bullied by guys because of it. I seriously don't want to have kids with a ugly dude. Because it could mean a ugly daughter. And ugly women suffer.

And why would I date someone if there is 0 attraction. Men never do it. Why should women?

If I like his personality but don't find him attractive. Then he would be a friend. I like many men and women personality. Lol

Men always imagine that it happen because women were only into short term relationship. Dude I never have been in short term relationship. Have 0 interest in hook up. But it is possible that I might be single at 30s. because men lie/cheat/abuse you. I don't think it would be good idea to stay with a guy if he beat me. Because he can beat our kids too. I don't want that for my kid's. How is my mistake if he lied about being interested in long term relationship? Or cheat?

It is always her mistake

It is not always her mistake

[Anonymous]

The most interesting part of it is that men seem to think that only good looking men cheat or are assholes in other ways. I’ve seen so many average and even unattractive guys cheat, try to cheat, abandon his wife and kids etc. One example is this average, fat, middle aged man who left his wife of like 20 years and 13 kids and went deadbeat dad to those kids and met a new woman and had several new kids with her. And they have no status in other ways either. Average jobs, average income, not popular, sometimes inexperienced with women and so on. IT DOESN’T MATTER what kind of man you’re dating, attractive or not, shy or charismatic, popular or nerdy woth no friends - men from all categories can and do cheat and behave like assholes. And they HIDE IT until you’re drawn in enough that’s it’s too late.

[PeachyPie93]

Don't listen to the morons on this site. The longer I stay here the more I realize it is super toxic and the people just make you feel bad. Don't get me wrong there are some really nice people on here but I think the majority are keyboard warriors and damaged goods. It is fine to need to start over at 30, people break up and it doesn't mean you were a hoe in your 20's like certain clowns like to say.

[HouseMoat]

Don't listen to this idiotic woman

[PeachyPie93]

@HouseMoat?

[Kabluie]

you are not wrong at all! there are people who probably fantasize dating on this site but never experienced it, or those incel virgins that only want to find and date a virgin lol.

[PeachyPie93]

@Kabluie Yeah that is so true lol

[Anonymous]

Are you asking a question or do you just want to complain?

Because I'll answer your question to try to help. But if you just want to complain then take it somewhere else.

Anyone can make a mistake hun. But when you do not learn from your mistakes is why guys do not have any sympathy. And if you're over 30 and still repeating the same mistakes that tells men you're not unlucky, you're just a bad human being, stupid, or possibly both. And no self respecting guy wants to take that on.

So it's pure logic. If a woman is over and still single it's by choice or by design.

[Asker]

But how am I even supposed to know if he is good person or faking it.

This is something men don't understand. So many men fake it

[Asker]

I can't read minds

[Opinion Owner]

You think women don't fake it? I got news for you. Women fake it about 10 time more. How do you know? Practice. You only fall for the same trick ONCE. You're actually at an advantage in the fact that men are EXPECTED to approach women. So you can use the EXCUSE of a bad guy approached me. We have live the fact that we chose a bad women because she shook her ass or batted her eyes at us.
Men understand hun. We understand that your gender primarily doesn't like to take responsibility for ANYTHING. You like to play the perpetual VICTIM.
Life isn't a fairytale hun. You could try something new like just being a good person. See how that works for ya.

[itsclearlynicholas]

Nope. I turn 30 soon and I'm single all this time. I'm not bothered that I spent my 20s during other productive things, rather than playing the field or plowing the field or even having a long term girlfriend. Ah well lol 😂😆 I find other things to occupy my time, like a craftsperson and their craft or a good close friends family, or even hobbies and other things that make time fly 👀👀👀👍 and I love my contributions I make to the earth like everyone else daily lol 🌎🌍

[Avicenna]

When a person is single, it's only a problem if they don't want to be single and can't find a partner. There's no requirement to be partnered.

[Anonymous]

Those same men will whine and complain about women being golddiggers and divorce rape men but somehow that’s not the mens fault for picking the wrong women. Women though, it’s always womens fault no matter what the man did. According to those men.

[LazerBean]

One persons choices certainly are not anyone else's mistake.

[IslaTheWitch]

life is too short to listen to idiots. Live your life as you please and don't look at others.

[HouseMoat]

When you blame others, you're only making an ass out of you and me

[Asker]

Okay tell me. How is it her mistake if a guy lie about having long term relationship intention. And end up breaking up after some years?

Is it her mistake. If she leave her boyfriend after he start beating her or leave him if he cheated?

What kind of abusive environment would that be for her kids?

[Asker]

You are assuming that all women want hookup. I have 0 interest in short term relationship. I only date for marriage

[HouseMoat]

All women just want hookups, I guarantee it

[Asker]

I have 0 interest in it. I am saving myself for marriage

[HouseMoat]

LMAO

[JHAYES317]

To some degree yeah…it may indicate she has unrealistic standards…but not necessarily

[andreasderjuengere]

How is being single a "mistake"?