So this guy I am dating is great. fifth date down and we are suppose to be going out this Friday. He is a little feminine. Not overly feminine. but just more than what I am used to. For example, he crosses his legs when he sits. I asked him if he were 100% straight, and he said yes. He says he has gay friends, female friends, straight friends, but has never been attracted to a guy. He said he had no reason to lie about it, Because he is completely tolerant of homosexuality but just isn't gay. men aren't his thing. He is a beautiful man, and because he is a tad bit feminine in actions he gets hit on by men all the time.
I have an incredible connection with this guy...should I let this stand in teh way of a possible love interest? Any women ever dated slightly feminine men?
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I think he just needs a group of manly guys to hang out with. We humans are great at adopting to all kinds of environments and our brain even picks up things from people we hang out with so that we fit more in. Its something that most of us do without realizing... Some people can't do it at all and makes them feel like they don't belong and and stuff. If your man socialize a lot with homosexuals and girls it would explain it. So if you have friends that play basketball or do manly stuff you should nudge him to hang out with them a little bit. It would balance him out so that he has a bit of both worlds lol.
For sometime I had enough of my male friends and decided to only hang with girls, to understand them better and to just see how it was. With time I noticed that I started doing somethings and worrying about somethings that I never did before. So I have little bit of experience with that.
If he does hang with manly guys for a few months and he doesn't change a little bit in the details then maybe its just his natural self and if you don't like it you don't like it. No point in making him something he naturally isn't,0