Is it true that there is that one unforgettable girl for boys/guys?

[coxoabean]

I was told and have heard that guys have that one girl. It's a little hard to explain, but there's that one girl that they will meet and never forget. That one girl that will always mean so much to them and matter to him, even if he doesn't get to be with her. Even if he moves on to someone else, she will Always be remembered by him and have a special spot in his heart. Is this true? If it's true what about that girl makes her be that one girl?

[serious]

This is a really good question. However, this would also depend on the fact if the man had relationships apart from that woman or if she was the only woman in his life and after that he decided to remain single.

Even if he had relationships apart from that special woman, yes there are many things that can make that remain special in his heart and mind even if he is currently not with that woman.

According to me these are certain things:

1. If the woman was super gorgeous in every aspect and he has not come across a woman like that after her. Yes men are visual creatures so this is a valid point.

2. Apart from her physical beauty, her personality was also equally attractive. Like being kind, nice, sweet, caring, empathetic, mature and other excellent qualities. Hence a near perfect combination of physical looks and personality aspects.

3. It could be the way she carried herself (personality wise) and they way she dealt with things in a calm and mature way. Not really expecting any help but still appreciating any help from the man (she was with)

4. The fact that the woman had softer qualities, like having a soft heart, being nice, sweet, caring but still not being very vulnerable to getting hurt. That means she had enough mental toughness in her as well.

5. If the woman always respected the man she was with in any way she could. She had more than normal level of respect for her man.

These are some of the points I can think off

[coxoabean]

Thank you for sharing. This are some good points!

[serious]

@coxoabean

You are welcome

[serious]

Thanks for the MHO

[coxoabean]

No problem, thank you for the helpful opinion

[TommyMountainFigure]

It's not true for all men. At least not for those of us who grow up.

[coxoabean]

Oh, what do you mean for those of you the grow up it's not true?

[TommyMountainFigure]

@coxoabean When you're young you think there can only be one girl for you, and if anything happens that causes you to lose her, it's the end of the world. Time passes and you realise that is all bull twaddle. There isn't just one, there are thousands of compatible candidates. You grow up and etc etc.

[coxoabean]

I like that way of thinking. Your right, when young our break ups seem like the world is ending haha. I'm just starting to get over that way of feeling

[TommyMountainFigure]

Thank you, and sorry for not explaining it better in the first place!

[coxoabean]

No problem, and it's perfectly fine! No worries

[TommyMountainFigure]

Thank you for MHO..

[coxoabean]

No problem

[AI Opinion]

Diving into the mysteries of the heart, aren't we? Love is a complex dance, and yes, many believe in the concept of "that one girl" who leaves an indelible mark on a guy's heart. It's not that this legendary girl possesses some magical powers, but rather, she connects with him on a deeply emotional, intellectual, or spiritual level that just resonates with him like no other. Perhaps it's a case of lovebombing emotions, or maybe they shared experiences that were uniquely intense or enlightening. What she makes him *feel* is key—whether it's feeling understood, accepted, or inspired. This connection or the loss of it can turn her into a lingering memory that no amount of time or distance can fully erase. Remember, every love story is unique, and for some, this notion of "that one girl" is as real as the heartbeats echoing their names. 💘

[SotiCoto]

"Diving". Take a shot.

[Dongie]

There was a girl named SHELLY O. that I thought was the most magical being I'd ever seen. Her lips were always wet and her hair was thick honey blonde that had different shades throughout. i thought about her, as she moved shortly after meeting her. The few times I was around her gave me feelings I'd never felt. I was turning 8 and she had already turned 8. I wanted her attention so bad but she ignored me. My two sisters roamed around the park with Shelly and her older sister Cindy. I started having a stomach ache trailing them around. Get mad and show off and nothing. For many years, until 13-14 I wondered wht she was doing and where she was. Little stuck-up bitch.

[coxoabean]

I'm sorry she ignored you. That does always hurt :/

[Dongie]

That was my first crush. I still remember her face and voice. Also how I heard her say she did not like boys. My sister could tell I liked her and told of course. They were mean too.

[coxoabean]

Dang I'm sorry they were mean. Do you know her name, have you ever tried to look for her on fb or something if your still wondering about her? I Don't remember my first crush tbh but I do remember one guy I had a crush on and his brothers and him were terribly mean to me.

[Dongie]

Nah, I had a vest friend at 11 and he knew the both of them fairly good. He was almost 2 years older. We were both excited that the other one knew them. He liked Cindy.

[Dongie]

I would love to see a picture of her at 20, 30, 40, 50 today.

[Anonymous]

I think that's far too specific. It could be 3 girls and they could be for 3 different reasons.

I think you need to remove the "romance" context from it. There is one girl I remember from my past because she treated me better than any woman has since or before. She's still an amazing woman to this day. But I also remember a woman a few years. After her. They're both still in my heart (and always will be) but for two completely different reasons. It's beyond anything romantic.

[coxoabean]

Oh, ok thank you for your response.

[Opinion Owner]

🤣🤣🤣

[coxoabean]

What's so funny

[Alex-Snow]

I have several girls that I will never forget (yes I have had sex with all of them) the memories and the great orgasms we shared will be unforgettable. OFC all guys will probably remember the first girl they had sex with. But who knows what I will hold on to as I get older. Do u have one guy that u will never forget?

[coxoabean]

I understand what you mean. I do have a guy in my life I may never forget but would like to tbh lol. I'm only 19 tho so I don't know if I'll forget him or not. So far there are a few guys I remember at times, once I get into a serious relationship, that might change, who knows. Um, I guess by my question I mean more just one girl that stood out then all the rest. I heard a guy say in an interview that there were several girls he liked a lot, had a good time with them and all, but that there is one that means so much more to him then the rest. Something about her made her so much more special than any other. That's what I mean, one girl that will stand out more than the rest. Sorry if it makes no sense..

[Alex-Snow]

Good point. I guess for me then it would be the girl who I lost my virginity to. We had been boyfriend/girlfriend for a month and she was kind enough to give me some greet handjobs then. One day her parents were away and we were at her house and had sex 3 times that afternoon. Each orgasm kept getting better and better. Fortunately she had had sex before with her previous boyfriend since I was psyched but nervous at the same time if u know what I mean. I would have liked to go for round 4 but I had no more condoms!

[coxoabean]

Yeah, I can see why the girl you lost your virginity to would be that girl for you. And ya ik what you mean haha. Sounds like you've had some good times based on your stories lol

[ryancg]

For sure, my highschool sweetheart, life took us on separate journeys but I'll always remember that girl. We were just so close at that time, my life could be pretty rough back then and she seemed to make everything better. So I'll always care about her and wish her the best.

[coxoabean]

I'm sorry life took you 2 two different ways. I had someone like that in my life once too that I'll possibly remember forever...

[DrPepper12]

Katy Perry is right. There is ALWAYS the one that got away!

[coxoabean]

Ya I guess so haha

[Anonymous]

I have eidetic memory so everyone's unforgettable to me 😵‍💫. But to your point , I haven't yet found that someone special so can't say.

[coxoabean]

I understand haha. I remember everyone so well too, due to good memory, especially if they made my day. But that might just be for now, once I meet someone they're likely to leave my memory..

[Opinion Owner]

I generally remember but never had a girlfriend so it's uncharted territory for me.

[coxoabean]

Yaa, I had 1bf but I hope he is one guy I never remember

[Fireguy17]

I have had more than 1 unforgettable female in my life.
I have been blessed.

[sheikalana]

All men before my Husband were forgettable to me.

[SotiCoto]

I remember every one of my exes vividly and don't resent any of them.

[genericname85]

i can't speak for everyone but i got one of these xD

[DreamLife7]

Hun, he found a woman who is everything he wants meaning you weren't what he wanted. If he wanted you he wouldn't have replaced you

[DreamLife7]

If a woman is unforgettable its usually the woman they couldn't get but always wanted. Other than that no.

[wezholt]

I wouldn't say that all guys have that type of girl on their lives, but some of us do.

My best friend is that girl to me, she saved my life.

[dustybiker2]

Probably. Terrified for life too. Poor men.

[Anonymous]

yes if he/she was their first option

[Theodoricus]

No, everyone is forgettable.

[Emmytexrex]

Lol no but now I kind of remember maybe

[JonesT10Apr]

yes for sure definitely few of us

[Pterodon]

I have one