Can a guy really only have eyes for one girl?

[Anonymous]

If he's head-over-heels in love? Please be honest!

[Nathaniel1316]

Oh god no I could never have eyes for one girl that's absolutely impossible... mainly because I don't have eyes for any girls.

I can however have eyes for one guy. I may find other guys attractive, but it's more of an appreciation for their physical appearance whether it be facial features or appreciating the amount of visible work they put in their body. It doesn't mean I want to leave my boyfriend to go fuck someone else. This applies to everyone not just gay men or men.

When you date you love your boyfriend, but do you still think Channing Tatum is hot? Or your ex?

That's similar to EVERYONE else. I find my boyfriend attractive in a more sexual way and with everyone else it's just an appreciation for their beauty.

It's like having a favorite more. You still see/watch other movies and will say their good, but at the end of the day you always have your favorite.

[Asker]

I really like this explanation, makes a lot of sense!

[Nathaniel1316]

You're welcome! I'm glad you understand now.

[Mesonfielde]

Numbers are irrelevant like that, guys do find multiple girls attractive if multiple girls are attractive. You can't undermine physical attraction towards attractive people just because you've chosen to stick with one attractive person.

Doesn't mean you want to date them, of course, but you CAN feel attracted to them.

[Aizou]

This.

[Chirinéonmä]

It all depends, it’s hard not to notice a good looking person and just take a better look.

People appreciate beauty.

TV shows, movies, magazines and the internet are full of good looking people. And we people love to look at them. Just stopping for coffee, or driving down the street, it seems that everywhere we go there is someone that can catch our eyes.

I think It’s no big deal though, taking a quick glance.

Wishing you the best of luck.

[Jojobear]

I truly think so. My man is defintley like that. We have been together for almost 4 years. We have been talking about getting married. If a man is truly in love with you, you will just know it. And if in thid case he's truly in love with you, he will have no desire to, look at any other women than you. He would have no need to. Cause he would be so attracted to you, thats all he wants to look at is you.

[jjesica346]

That is the aged old question!! I think a small percent (very small) are really true!! I am w/my soul mate and I have caught him checking out women (he usually looks @ ones with boobs and muffin tops) in which I can't seem to understand because I'm thin and sport a hefty b cup. So in closing, NO!

[Asker]

Hahaha who could look away from a good muffin top! Maybe it looked at him.

[Anonymous]

Only if he is demisexual.

I'm not demisexual, and I admit I am sometimes attracted to other women. Very rarely do I find one more attractive than my partner, and when I do I have no desire for her anyway. I don't stare, and I don't feed the thoughts. I just ignore her and go about my day.

[Anonymous]

Yes.
I will not comment on how much percentage of guys.
I will say that if a guy is really in love then he will have eyes for one girl. That doesn't mean that he can't get attracted. Most of times, let's say 90% of times he may not look more than once at other usually attractive girls. It depends on guy.
I have eyes for one girl and I find other girls beautiful but don't get attracted like I used to before. You know the 'lusty eyes' or desire to 'check her out' disappears.

[Fibbett]

I think the answer is yes and no. They may THINK they only have loved for her, but you can't see the future. It's possible that they meet someone they love more.

[anonman32]

let me put it like this. when i am in love, other women can get a glance at most. but my girlfriend gets my attention.

[Anonymous]

No guy in the entire world can ever only be in love with one women. Never ever. Get used to it. The only reason we are attracted is to reproduce, that's all. That's all you women will ever be

[Anonymous]

Yes, it's true, but it depends on the guy, not all of us are "the same". I had my eyes for only one girl, but she never liked me, my love was unrequited, that's why I'm still single :(

[davesmit]

eyes for just one girl? no..

we will always notice hot women no matter how much we love our gf/wife

[Anonymous]

I believe there are some good men out there that are loyal and respectful.

[Anonymous]

O yes if they are loyal and truthful.
But honest average or more same sex on a daily basis see about 5 people a day they see as a mate
True face

[Blueeyes81]

Jesus wept. Did you even think before you wrote this?

[Keepcalm89]

Yeah if he's in love yeah in crush mode maybe not I didn't.

[93stepsawayfromhome]

As a demisexual, no. But I'm the exception and not the rule, I reckon.

[93stepsawayfromhome]

Sorry, I meant yes. Your followup question confused me.

[Felinegirl]

Yes, I've seen it happen a few times

[zombiebabe]

hmmmmm i highly doubt it

[Bandit74]

Heart, yes.

Eyes, not likely.

[orphan]

sure, if they're blind.

[Nerdvana]

Honestly. Yes. Why do you ask?

[Anonymous]

Yeah, I knew a guy like that once.

[This_is_my_username]

Ya of course.

[singlebee]

Hmmmmm yes