Do guys like girls who are shy/quiet and maybe take a while to fully open up when in a crowd? How should a quiet girl act at a party?

[Anonymous]

[BasedBaeBecca]

Some guys might find girls who are shy or reserved to be cute, endearing, or mysterious. Being a little shy or quiet can be endearing and make you seem more genuine and approachable. At a party, you could try to take it slowly and ease your way into conversations, ask questions and listen attentively, and be yourself. You could also try to stick with a friend or a group to make it easier to meet new people and get familiar with the environment. Don't be afraid to come out of your shell and enjoy yourself - after all, you only live once!

[kylee2437]

Be yourself. Do not put up a mask in hopes that it will impress people because at the end of the day, you are going to be your real self when you can no longer keep up with that mask and ultimately you are setting yourself up to fail because you attracted a person that is attracted to your mask - not who you actually are.

[Anonymous]

Act like yourself. Why do you want a guy who likes outgoing girls if you aren’t outgoing. It seems like a fundamental incompatibility. Unless you want to be more outgoing and want to work on it, but I don’t know if you need to feel obligated to.

[slatyb]

Drop all the "shoulds". Behave in the way that makes you most comfortable. Keep in mind that other people are shy too. Don't be afraid to say hello and introduce yourself.

[MementoMori777]

yes and i dont think parties are an environment for such girls lol

[Asker]

I mean there’s a party in my apartment building for the residents in the lounge next Friday and I want to meet someone. But I’ll be going alone.

[MementoMori777]

then just talk to whoever gives you a good vibe

[Sharkstealth]

Im like that and I would probably seek you out

[Christoff92]

Shy but also courteous

[In_Trance]

some do

[Luckycharms12]

Act like yourself