What turns a girl off of a guy she was into?

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Rei13 · Accepted Answer

In the past if we were still in the acquaintance phase, I liked him a lot, and then we got to know each other then turnoffs are as follows He has a dirty home. As in never doing dishes, leaving food out to where it gets moldy, smells of pets, etc. There is a difference between being messy and being dirty. Nothing against clutter but if it’s something disgusting you gone  Bad personal hygiene. Not showering, not brushing teeth, wearing clearly dirty clothes. Some people hide this well until you’re around each other more Hates animals Gets angry easily. Road rage. Didn’t get the right order. Didn’t like how the Walmart employee took that corner. Girl run. Only a matter of time before it turns on you Rude to waiters or customer service employees Consistently flaky on plans. Never making time to spend it together

provokeesmokee · Accepted Answer

So much shit. Here's my immediate red flag list. Note this applies regardless of gender:

can't cook or clean well
doesn't work or is underemployed
can't initiate or maintain conversation
conservative
doesn't do what needs to be done
is lazy/physically sedentary

Basically, unless you're a video game addicted loser with no friends or active hobbies, you're prolly fine.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Holy s*** dude! This only allows 5000 characters. There's no way you fit all the things that can and will turn a woman off. A mild f***ing breeze can turn a woman off. Likewise if a woman is into you you can be f***ing serial killer and she'll excuse it.😆

Don't worry about. Don't try to understand why women do anything they do, you'll just make yourself crazy and still not have an answer. Just know what you're willing to tolerate with her. That's the best advice I can give you man.

ConspiracyTheorist · Accepted Answer

I don't know but I seem to have done it🥺 the girl of my dreams was totally into me ot felt like and then all the sudden she went cold, I don't know what I did but I wish I did because this girl is amazing and she doesn't know it but I fell in love with her and she is the only thing I want in this life.

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

I've found one thing that turns girls off is being too open about your feelings too soon, and talking about things that should really just be implied instead of outright spoken.
Some girls will claim they like that, but I've never found that to be the case.

I'm a very emotional person and I like to speak my mind, so I've had to learn that one the hard way a couple times 🤦‍♂️

BasedBaeBecca · Answer

This is a really subjective question. It varies from individual to individual.
Here are 3 possible things that might turn a girl off:
1. Arrogance and egotism
2. Lack of emotional intelligence
3. Poor self-care
But again, it varies and each person may have a different opinion on this.

mandyfire98 · Answer

Not taking care of themselves Misogyny Disrespectful Insecurity

CrazyKittyStyx · Answer

I agree with all the other comments arrogance etc and as bad as this sounds being too keen can turn a girl off.

But sometimes, people just change their mind, it’s probably nothing you’ve done. Do not to go chasing after her too hard though or she really will run away! And NO ONE should have that level of importance in your life, trust me that’s only going to make you unhappy.

crystalline0909 · Answer

Infidelity ( if she has self-respect)  Deceit  Man afraid to accept her as his around people. Lack of emotional maturity. Sense of needing validation

Elena_the_Star · Answer

Being cowardly, cheap/pennypincher, not being able to stand for himself especially to other men etc

virtualwasp · Answer

The company he keeps or lack of effort on his part. Only reasons. Who you have around you is a reflection of you

Billlewis · Answer

Don't forget the number one reason why a woman changes her mind about a guy -- she found someone better.

Reem12345reem · Answer

Unhygienic Rude Big ego  Careless (this is the worst , like if he doesn't listen or focus or doesn't remember important things about u or doesn't compliment u a lot and doesn't communicate)

_SillyShoes_ · Answer

When it's clear he's inconsistent and not serious about her - he may not see it as such, but women can sense this clearly.

socially_confused · Answer

Treating her poorly (also love the modern family screenshot lol)

nolabels · Answer

Common sense. I've yet to see it fail.

sheenagwapa · Answer

if for example yoy cannot fight for me from your parents or friends

sheikalana · Answer

I could be a million things. It's hard to tell without knowing the full story or the person.

magiusX26 · Answer

some of the same things that turn a guy away from a girl he used to be into.

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

Bad behavior. Bad hygiene. Manipulative Etc

Boomchakalaca · Answer

Sexist, extreme republican behavior.

Jazzy54 · Answer

He turns out to be a jerk.

Malwi93 · Answer

He is a manipulator

Anonymous · Answer

Cheating.

Anonymous · Answer

Misogyny.

Lexina · Answer

Lies and disrespect

monghjay2 · Answer

lack of money

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