What you do when a girl likes you but you do not like her?

[mattclark242]

what you do when a girl like you but you do not like her?

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this girl want me buy her lots of food and thing all the time when we go out and she not have a lot money. I want help her

But I feel like she useing me to much and I not attracted to her we get along ok and she dose a few thing I do not like and get mad when I do not get her thing or do what she want.

I wish I could get her a boyfriend who have lots of money to give to her.

[Anonymous]

Realize there is a chemical reaction going on in your brain. It’s not making you think clearly. It’s natural but it still sucks. It’s also tied into your ego. But realize you are not only fighting your own willpower but you got a chemical upstairs.

Then realize there is another feel good chemical upstairs: self respect. Think of how feel when you are proud of yourself. You might not feel that way now but convince yourself you will feel that later if you move on. Think about respecting yourself and you will find the willpower to ignore her.

I think this self discipline for future better results is what separates guys who can respect themselves and move on quick vs those who struggle. Also it’s funny how women often react to guys who quit giving them undeserved attention out of self respect.

While no guarantee it does make some women think twice. When they do circle back then you are in a position to call the shots. But you have to leave and mean it. Cut your losses and give up any false hope of her changing her mind. Women know when you are bluffing.

“The strongest position at the negotiating table is to be able to walk away and mean it.”

- Corey Wayne

[Opinion Owner]

Fuck I misread your question. My bad.

[mattclark242]

it ok

[Fireguy17]

Just move on.
Let her know politely that you are just not interested in her.

[AliciaLee]

Just tell her you don't like her that way. Be honest and straightforward. Its the only way to go about it. You could suggest being friends unless you really dont like her.

[HM313]

I got your same train of thought.

[AliciaLee]

@HM313 That is aweosme!

[Anemone978]

Just be honest.. Tell her I like you as a friend and not romantically. Also tell her I want to stay friends but I can't always buy you stuff constantly..

[coachTanthony]

Lie to her and get some free sex.

[Starlove4]

U ain’t 💩

[blueonblack22]

@coachTanthony So she gets burned and later mistreats a guy who actually likes her? Women already do a lot of unfair bullshit in society. Let’s not give them more reason to. This isn’t a zero sum game.

[DarkLegacy]

Brilliant answer

[mattclark242]

@Starlove4 I want say I like this but there no like button. But where I could get sex out of her I think I sick and I do not want make her sick and she had a kid I think, Also she want to do it in a park and I think it a bad ideal. I got her lot of thing when we want out on the day I feel like she want to much stuff. I get she have no money and no way make money cause she on ssi. I just going try be friends with her.

[Angelo75]

If you're not taken, be flattered and see it as a compliment. Assuming you're single, at least give her a chance to show a bit of her personality. Sometimes a feature that makes you not-interested in a person is only 1% of her personalility, while the other 99% of her personality are things that would blow your mind away.

And be nice to her if or when you're preparing to tell her that you're not interested. Don't be blunt and just say "i don't like you" or "you don't impress me".
Remember, it's someones heart that you have in your hands.
But at the same time, don't keep her at a line either. Just gently let her understand that she has to move on.

[mattclark242]

well there a lot thing I do not like about her one of them is she have little to no money and no way to make more. I want her to have food but it hard for her to have it she on ssi and things. She have just a tv a bed and a room. Her mom dose not have a lot stuff and she need thing all the time and her dad gambles to make money. When we go out she think all the people driving are bad driver. She want me buy her a lot food and drinks and beer and cigarettes and vapes and stuff. She get mad if I do not. the food I get her not good food it not like she get good food to buy when we go out. She dose not like walking and get mad if I do not park close. She get high or drunk and can not walk good. She said she not get high if I do not like it I told her do what ever she want to do. We get along ok. She get mad if I do not want do thing for her. we want like 7 place last time I took her out. She said she miss me but I nit sure if she dose or if she just want me take her out agin. I just do not have the money to take her out all the time and her want a lot things. She have no way help me get more money. Then when we get down she want to have sex in the park. She said I am a good guy and her mom she should keep me. But maybe she said that cause I get her things. I wish I could give her a guy who could get her a lot of stuff. Also I not attracted to her. She ok well just ok. I feel bad she dose not have food. She ok hang out with.

[Finchie40]

Be nice and polite to her , tell her
You are flattered that she is interested in you but tell her sorry I am already involved with someone else or you already like someone else , There is no reason to be mean to someone for showing interest in you , whether you are attracted to them or not , We don’t walk around with signs flashing above our heads stating what we are into or what are relationship status is , so there is no reason to be rude to someone that is showing you interest, you only get rude when they don’t take No for an answer

[dynamicyandere]

As mentioned before already, don’t lead them on.


Don’t give them the wrong idea by sending mixed signals.


Be honest with them, but also don’t be an asshole about it.


Let them know that you just don’t see them that way.


“Let’s just be friends.” 🙃

[EricSummer]

Most of the time this will not need any specific action. If you ask her out she would accept, but if you do not ask her out nothing will happen.

Same for texting. If you are not enthusiastic about it the conversation will peter out.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Just talk about some hot chicks you banged.

[AnusNdaPainus]

Deuces ✌️

[AnusNdaPainus]

@mattclark242 for the update
You
Need
To
Kick
This
Bitch
To
The
Curb.

Sounds like she just wants to be friends and friends don’t get girlfriend treatment

[mattclark242]

ok she was going give me sex.

[AnusNdaPainus]

Dude. God didn’t stop making women after her🙄
A vagina comes standard on every model. Please have some self respect for yourself.

[mattclark242]

ok your right thank you.

[KatherineJ]

You tell her that you don’t see her that way. I mean be nice about it, but being honest allows her to move on.

[Shiningtempest]

@mattclark242 If a girl likes me but I don't like her, I bluntly say "I don't see a future with you".

[mattclark242]

cool ok

[WhitneySnow]

It’s been a guy in my case but I would let them down gently (though it could be a girl because I am bi)

[Pinay_ako]

Be nice and polite. And keep your distance. Make it known you’re not interested

[kellytheman]

I would try to turn her down easily and politely try not to hurt her feelings. I might offer a bro she might like that is like me and even better looking.

[Deformate]

Just don't lead her on and let her believe there is a possibility. Be kind but be honest.

[sheikalana]

Be honest with her without being rude and do not give her any false hopes.

[HM313]

You can tell her you can be just friends, and, as a friend, tell her that she asks for too many things. Also tell her you do not want to marry her and that you will help her find a rich man to marry.

[HM313]

If she keeps attaching herself in a girlfriend behavior, just start ignoring her at levels. This, I think, is the best way to get out of this situation.

[mattclark242]

ok I don't know a rich man for her I try get my 2 guy friends to go out with her one told her jump off a bridge

[mattclark242]

ok it hard to do she call and text a lot.

[whistlingwh0res]

Tell her that you don’t like her face to face. Don’t give wrong idea or drag it long. The longer you hold it he longer she will end up hating you

[Anonymous]

Tell her the truth. I've been led on before and it's not a good feeling at all.

[Kinkyhubby]

Be nice to her and tell her I like her as a friend only and leave it at that

[Kacka]

dont know. in my life i found couple little womens i liked, one of them is my ex and second current wife, only girls and boys have those question's , men and women knows.

[mattclark242]

Ok just tell her I do not like her and just be friends and or go away

[Jazzy54]

Since I’ve been on the receiving end of this, be as nice about it as possible. Just tell her you’re not interested in her in that way.

[DarkLegacy]

Get sex out of her if she is hot, or just avoid her

[Alli39]

Make your feelings clear and communicate on the issue?

[CuriousMufuxka]

That would depend on whether she works at my job or not.

[LiamJHayden]

Unless I have a reason to dislike her I'll probably give her a chance to see if something might develop.

[Pohjolan]

*shrugs*

Most girls will try to keep some plausible deniability so there is no need to do anything.

[OddBeMe]

They’re usually more mature and won’t “fatal attraction” you. Ironically that’s guys who mostly do that.

[ImHere22]

File a restraining order

[sammyyyyasdfghjkl]

tell her you don’t like her.

[Juxtapose]

I turn her down gently.

[Luopio27]

Dont lead her on or show signs of intrest.

[Minahh]

Leave her be and find somebody you like?

[LostandFound__x]

You should point blank just tell her.

[Exterminatore]

Tie her hair to something and walk away.

[shades777]

she dont like you, she's using you

[Willoughby23]

That never happens

[mattclark242]

what never happen?

[Blacksnake285]

How do you know she likes you, she told you?

[mattclark242]

she said she miss me and wanted love.

[Blacksnake285]

You capping

[mattclark242]

No that what she said I don't know I think she just want guys to buy her food anyway thank you

[Sasha0426]

Reject her