What does a girl gain by continuing to treat me like shit after a breakup?

[Anonymous]

Like she’s rude and it’s almost like a complete personality shift to the girl I was initially interested in. Also the arguments caused the breakup and many of the arguments were her throwing temper tantrums cause she couldn’t get her way and when she couldn’t get her way she would call who would listen to her and make me the bad guy. When something happens to her everyone has to drop what they are doing and Cater to her. But when I have something going on she couldn’t have cared less.

[Anonymous]

Some women only know "control" of others. They don't view the world in terms of love. They have a toxic mindset and only know how to manipulate. And when she loses that ability to control you she lashes out. The hope is she's either going to bully you emotionally back into control or she going to do the next best thing, make you miserable.

Always remember you're a man dude. A woman cannot take from a man anything that he does not willingly concede. Know that she ain't happy and to shrug it off. It's not your problem anymore. But know your a man. Don't lower herself to her antics. Always be a man. At some point she'll realize you're a man of substance and cannot be broken and she will give up.

[Anonymous]

A personality shift?

Um... humans experience more than one emotion. If there's a reason she's angry at u, talk to her and tell her u would like a discussion instead of her throwing tantrums. Maybe she's trying to vent? I don't know have a discussion. You're both adults.

[WhitneySnow]

She is angry at you for breaking up with her.

[Asker]

She broke up with me

[WhitneySnow]

Then that’s just weird

[ShesRad80]

if you two broke up why would you even entertain her bullshit? and allow this to go on further? and it shows he personality to get you was fake you are now seeing the real her and good riddance

[slatyb]

Why are you still in contact with her?

[Asker]

We still live together

[slatyb]

You are co-tenants (you both signed the lease)? That's pretty rough. How soon can you move?

[LiamJHayden]

She's an ex. Just ignore her.

[DrKrieger]

Cut ties