My girl cousin was in her underwear and she didn’t tell me anything?

[Anonymous]

So I (20M) have a really good relationship with my cousin (18F) and she texts me every day when she wakes up and I just say ok or when I’m over at her house I hang out with her. Well a couple of days ago I was visiting and she texts me and I said oh ok want to hang out and she said yes so I go to her room and I knock until she says I can come in because she has her privacy and I want to respect her and she says come in and she always has a blanket on because she gets cold easily and so I talk to her and she invites me into her bed she has a king size bed and I was feeling cold so I lift the blanket up and because she has blackout curtains and it dark in her room I didn’t see anything then when I go to wake my uncle up for work he was already up and he comes into the room and says goodbye and says I got food go eat before it’s cold and she says ok let me get my shorts on and I’ll come and I was like what? And when I ask her about it she said it’s fine. I feel like I can get in trouble if I don’t do something about what’s going on

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I think everyone misinterpreting what I’m saying I’m asking how should I go about what happened like bring it up with my uncle and aunt or just her and my aunt

[Truthatanycost]

Just because you're invited into bed, it doesn't mean you have to say yes. You could have avoided all of this by having your own stricter boundaries. Do not rely on anyone else to have them. Make them yourself and enforce them. Since you are a man, you will be considered the guilty party in anything to do with this. Therefore learn the lesson and stay well away. Getting into bed because it's cold? use your logic...

[Static_In_The_Attic]

It seems like you are making a mountain out of a molehill on this one but on the other hand some families are close nowadays & you like what you like.

Don’t Bang Your Cousin Dude!

[Daniellaanderson31]

I think you don’t have to worry because I’m hoping you’re not trying to do anything to her but she said it was fine so it’s fine if you are worried tell her mom and she’ll tell her privately and that way you can save your butt and not worry about stupid things

[SnowedIn]

You say nothing. Her house her choice to wear or not wear what she wants.

None of your business.

You don't need to tattle to your aunt and uncle.

[FunkyMonkee]

Well, what's the difference between underwear and a bikini? They both cover the same area so, no big deal if it's underwear she's wearing. You still don't get to see her goodies.

[KrakenAttackin]

Girls go a lot of crazy sexual shit. Just remember, no matter what happens, it will be YOUR fault, meaning everyone will consider you the "predatory perv".

[Anonymous]

Yeah, leave her alone.

[riverrat3]

You may be making something of nothing

[Subflics]

Um. Don't do that