What a woman brings to the table is based on my perception, and that is shaped by my needs and desires. My fiancee is employed and is not high maintenance. She is extremely loyal. She is affectionate. She is by my side, not hiding, when we have unpleasant tasks to tackle. She doesn't stay mad if we have a disagreement. She brought what I needed. . . but that may not be what other people need.
Other guys may want a girl who does a sexual pentathlon in bed every night. Or a girl who is a 9/10 based on appearance. Or a girl with a big butt.
To each, his own!
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Money. Since they work they bring money to the relationship.
They are looser. Guys can get sex out of women. You used to have to commit to your girl and marry her and she'd save herself for a husband. Since that is out the window, girls will F 10, 20, 50 guys in their lifetimes and start putting out at 15, 16, 17... it is a lot easier to get some non committal sex.
They are not worth committing to. Guys that want to marry or get real serious about any modern woman is kind of being a fool. Most women aren't worth marrying anymore. No reason to legally tie your assets and financial future to be her 30th lover and then have her cheat on you then divorce you and then you have to pay her alimony for 5-10 years.
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This is a good question not only for the ladies but for us too.
I believe a quality woman won't be impressed by a mountain of money or driving a Tesla. Imagine being asked this and the materialistic aspects won't phase her.
While the question raises a very valid point "what can you offer, that the others aren't doing?" it puts the person in an uncomfortable position in which they begin to believe they are in a losing battle and facing high standards or that they aren't worthy of dating and are being seen as just like the others.
There probably is no nicer way of asking this and making dating functional.
So long it's not "other man's kids" or huge debts, it's a start.
a high body count and all the unnecessary drama that comes with it
Most of them bring nothing other than their bodies that have already been ran-through by many other dudes.
As with almost anything, it depends upon the individual.
Whatever they want. Some bring a lot, some just bring a s***load of baggage.
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