for me it would start off as casual and build upto marital (though due to crap in my past doubtful an actual marriage will ever happen) .
she should bring a mind capable of helping find readonable solutions to issues and problems that will arise. a chance for resources (be it financial, emotional, physical, or other) to at least offset resources used on her behalf from my end of things (seeking a balance) . ability to take over the providing if something dire were to happen to me. actual companionship, loyalty, honor, honesty, accountability, respect and respectability, acceptance, understanding, ability to listen without judgement, an open mind.
and i expect to have to bring the same. or something equivalent.
not going to lie, the sexual component is still large part for me and looks lend towards that but would like to get past the looks with time by building a connection so that either we dont mind when looks fade or we dont notice them fading with each other.
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1 Peter 3:1-7Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives, when they see your respectful and pure conduct. Do not let your adorning be external—the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear— but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God's sight is very precious. For this is how the holy women who hoped in God used to adorn themselves, by submitting to their own husbandsSo long story short the wife is very important, according to the Bible, a woman brings a lot to the table, the man is the head of the house and the women is the body, can't have a head without a body and can't have a body without a head, both play important roles.
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I think she should come with open communication, trust, compassion, an ability to stand her ground against her man when it's appropriate. The ability to take a look into his interests before deciding it's not for her.
Let me know if you want to know more.Intelligence, Respect, Sincerity, Nurturing.
Help us when we are weak
Be proud when we are strong
Be our best friend
Be our lover
Be our kinky friend in the sheets
and so much moreIntelligence, experience, a job, realistic expectations chances are very few people are going to marry a rich person, effort to engage in the relationship, understand that both of us need our alone time, not coming in a demanding we get rid of our hobbies and possessions to please you. Understanding that no marriage/relationship is going to be a Disney cartoon. No paying each other's bills, or loaning money until you are living together.
A relationship is a partnership. Every partner needs and bring different things to the table. It isn't a cookie cutter situation based on gender.
Health, youth, fertility, and strong moral foundation
A woman should bring grace, charm, love, emotional support and a little financial support to a relationship. Once children come, she must know how to provide a good home, good wife, and mother.
The best advice on this is found in the Bible book of Proverbs ( Chapter 31, Verses 10:31).
Shouldn't it be a partnership where 2 people compliment each other?
Other than a good rack… toughy
The food that go on the table drama free
Everything she expects the man to bring.
What ever is enough.
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