To my plus size girlies, when riding, how do you do it? Im nervous to be too heavy or do it wrong?

[Anonymous]

I've done it 3-4 times but im nervous to be too heavy. Also nervous to genuinely do it wrong. Pls help

[Anonymous]

I'm not plus size, but it depends on who you're doing it with tbh. Every man is different. Some like it when you're taking control and actively doing the work, other men like to be the one to thrust into you but no man likes a woman that just sits there like a dead fish. Do something even if it's kissing his collarbone or his jawline.

[Asker]

I definitely dont dead fish it lol. I do just about anything else, its just the riding im worried about and want to get the hang of. But thank you!

[Paulalove98]

I’m not plus but I’m kind of chubby but usually I just sit on top of him facing me as I thrust inside him I mean that’s another good position to try lol.

[DaveJord]

I have been with plus sized woman... and let me tell you if you are working it right, then you are not going to hurt that man. Just keep it on the bed mattress. What we do not like are woman that are so nervous or insecure about it that it distracts from the sex.

I will just say lay it on him and have fun.

[strateguy632]

use your KNEES on mattress for weight support, like lower leg along mattress parallel and weight on knees leaning. i was with a plus for a short time and this worked until we split.

[roseloyaa]

Ik wym and its okay to be nervous about it. You have to lean forward, lay your feet/knees on the bed, and try grinding instead if bouncing. Ik it makes you nervous but they'll communicate to you what they want and try to enjoy yourself in the moment

[Anonymous]

When I was heavy 10+ years ago, I did the same as I do now. I have not noticed anything different.