Would I look desperate messaging a guy I used to be close with after months of no contact? He sent the last message?

[HelloSofi97]

I want to write him a simple…hello

[_Maya_]

No not at all. Only thing is you're going to have to explain yourself. He is likely to ask so be prepared to tell him why you ghosted him. Also have some things to talk about ready to go once that is out of the way. Last thing is be prepared that he says nothing back to you at all. You were the one to cut off communication. He may just give you the same treatment that you gave him. It is a real possibility so just remember that you did the same to him.

[HelloSofi97]

He had a girlfriend at the time he messaged me. What would you recommend I send as a conversation starter? His last message was in February.

[_Maya_]

Maybe just send a hey what's up and how are things going? You know like what's new in your life and that sorta thing. Keep it simple to start and see where it goes.

[HelloSofi97]

Watch me get ignored 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙆🏻‍♀️

[_Maya_]

Lol it could happen but I hope not. Good luck to you! 💜

[Rei13]

Not really, you’re over thinking it. Just send him a “Hey! It’s been awhile, how have you been?” or however you want to phrase it. Worst case he ignores it and best case it leads into you both reconnecting

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Despite you wouldn’t look but kind of dumb you would & after months of no contact your message better be a good one other than “HEYYY” or “Hi” or stupid shift like that.

[HelloSofi97]

He had a girlfriend at the time, February of this year, I didn’t understand why he was messaging me with the excuse of wanting to check on a friend. I was really close to him prior to him having a gf…to the point where we would be each other’s mental support. One time I even cashapped him money because I felt bad that he was studying at the time and volunteering but didn’t have money to eat.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Some say you never know what you have until it’s gone & in this case maybe he was starting to realize that & as they say love is blind. He was probably thinking of you & after all you two were each other’s mental support & it’s hard to forget that.

He had a girlfriend at the time, does he have one now?

Are you in love with him?

[HelloSofi97]

He may or may not have one. He stopped posting her and he currently doesn’t post or have any relationship pics of him.

Am I in love with him? Honestly, when I first met him I always felt that he was perfect for me in every way possible…personality, appearance and everything in general.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Do you love him? Yes or No…

[HelloSofi97]

The answer is…. yes

[Static_In_The_Attic]

In life I always say if you like someone don’t be afraid to tell them & in this case you love him so say fuck it & text him the following. Did you ditch the bitch? I’m in love with you!

[katiesmuff]

If your interested in connecting with him again jump on the idea of sending your message.

[Brady]

nope