Is it true if my female friend said this?

[Anonymous]

So my female friend said that im pretty for female standards but in her opinion a guys point of view they wouldn’t find me attractive because I’m not skinny and then she went on to talk about how she was skinny and better than girls who are quiet and awkward around guys because she has personality (she was kinda buzzed)

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo yo, chill on that sis! That's some messed up stuff to say to your friend - ain't cool putting others down to boost yaself up.

First off, looks are subjective ya feel me? Just cause you down with the thiccness don't mean dudes won't be too. Plenty guys out there into all kinds!

Second, personality way more important than looks ever be. Sure confidence is fire, but being a mean girl ain't it. You got way more to offer than how skinni you are girl, don't let no one tell you different!

Last thing is, real friends lift each other up - they don't tear each other down. I know people say dumb mess when they buzzed, but that was outta line for real.

Next time she come at you sideways, just smile big and be like "naaa girl we both fly now let's go have fun!" Don't even give her nonsense energy. You cooler than that, aye? Stay shining sis.

[BarryLiverstone]

I’m wondering what are woman’s standards? To be attractive that’s to be healthy and in shape generally

[ZamerZ]

Now, there are always two possibilites: Some drunk people only talk shit and some drunk people are brutally honest. Either way, their way of thinking clearly is impacted. Keep in mind that, even if she meant what she said, it is only her opinion and doesn't reflect what other people, especially guys, think about you. Everyone is different. I have friends who aren't into skinny girls and like those on the heavier side. I don't know her, but she sounds like a "I'm not like other girls" person. I probably would ask myself if I would be friends with someone who needs to put others down so she can come out on top.

[Anonymous]

She’s somewhat correct.

Men WILL sleep with overweight & obese women who are pretty.

HOWEVER! The overweight/ obesity , signals (lack of self control) or (mental health issues) in either sex.

This means; even if men will sleep with you and give you sex. They might not take your seriously. Basically they see you as short-term fun.

She’s wrong about the part of “men won’t find you attractive”. Because men can still get their DICKS hard. What she should have said is that men will disrespect you and not take you seriously.

I was getting sex just fine at 250 POUNDS. But it is short term fun, unfortunately.

[Katie1964]

1. How does she have the knowledge, and right, to speak on behalf of all men. Some people like Peppermint Ice Cream some like Vanilla. Everyone is different.

2. Sounds like she is just covering her own insecurities and trying to tear you down so she can feel better about herself. Find a new "female friend" because she isn't your friend, female or not.

[fonduegirl]

She's a pick me. Cut her loose.