Is I'm lonely or I'm having a mental health problem?

[yumziee]

Last night I cried so so hard from almost 2 years I'm crying everyday I pray to god everyday to give me some real people who will love me. I'm losing my hope so much it's getting so bad I don't even know how to fix this 😭

[Rixon]

It happens have been there and experienced it. It’s a lesson in life that you shouldn’t hold onto things longer than required. I very well know it’s easier to say than done. Maybe I can share my experience and how I gathered courage to move out of it if you would be able to follow me and dm. You can anytime block me if am not being helpful. It’s just that I don’t want any person to waste time for someone who isn’t meant to deserve you.

[Anonymous]

Regardless of whether you’re lonely or need mental help you need to put some plan into action. I know a lot of people don’t like hearing this but praying isn’t going to do anything for you. If you strictly rely on praying rather than making it happen there’s no point in doing much in life cause what is meant to be will come your way.

[Lisia]

I think you're lonely but are you making an effort to meet new people?

[yumziee]

No I'm just so afraid

[Lisia]

Afraid of getting hurt again?

[yumziee]

Yes maybe i really don't know what's happening with me I feel like something was going wrong with me

[Lisia]

No the thing is, I'm the same age as you and I know it's hard but you should just open yourself up to new people.. yes you'll get hurt but you'll learn from it and continue to grow as a person. Don't let one dumb guy ruin how beautiful life can be for you!

[yumziee]

These words are so pleasing thankyou!

[Lisia]

No problem girl ❤️

[zeitgeist057]

Could be a little bit of both, mental health can be like physical health: it can be improved with some work.

If you want, follow and DM me, let's talk a bit? I'd like to ask you some questions.

[yumziee]

I can't send a private message maybe you can

[zeitgeist057]

you have to follow first, then you can send

[BobLouis]

Your family and friends love you. If it's about some guy just get over it and move on.

[yumziee]

Not that easy but I'm trying thankyou!

[Iron_Man]

Aren’t you depressed because you had a problem with a guy

[yumziee]

No I don't have any problem, I'm just not yet fully moved on from my ex

[Iron_Man]

That’s why you’re feeling bad

[yumziee]

It's just 2 months relationship and it's been 2 years still I haven't moved on yet. I feel like shit. I'm not obsessed but it's just my pure love maybe I don't know man why life is so fucking hard

[Iron_Man]

Why don’t you try dating again and try to get past this and find somebody special

[yumziee]

Obv I've tried it but I feel like only he's better everytime and his memories are stuck in my head

[Iron_Man]

If it’s driving, you this crazy have you thought of professional counseling?

[yumziee]

Yes, they told me to do some relaxation activities like meditation cause it's not good for my health to start medication at this age.

[Iron_Man]

Did you just date this guy or were you emotionally involved at the highest level? If you know what I mean maybe that’s why you’re attached

[yumziee]

I just felt so safe when I hugged him and I'm not doing good at my career and personal life rn it's just that I want to feel safe although I've my parents but they're busy in their own life and I don't want to ruin their peace bc of me

[Iron_Man]

Wow you are really attached especially after two months. I think you should keep going to counseling and start dating other guys

[yumziee]

Yes only option!

[Iron_Man]

You’re a little bit too young to start getting attached to guys just try to enjoy the moment dating like going out to eat movies recreational events

[yumziee]

Will try thankyou!

[Iron_Man]

You’re very welcome. Good luck be positive keep your head up.

[In_Trance]

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