What are the chances that he’s stalking me?

[Anonymous]

Is he stalking me?

Fake account with same name as my ex started to view my stories, is it just coincidence?
The fake account has same first name as my ex and the surnname is shortened with letter ”M” which is also first letter of my ex’s surname

Updates

7 mo

:))))))

[Oliverlogan263]

That is kinda creepy. I wouldn't say for sure it's stalking yet, but here's what I'd be thinking:

- Fake accounts are sketchy to begin with. Why not use his real one?

- The name similarity is super suspicious. That's a hell of a coincidence if it ain't your ex.

- Checkin' out your stories is getting into stalker territory. Trying to keep tabs without you knowing maybe?

- Shortening the last name is also sketch. Like he's hiding but you'd still recognize it's him you know?

Personally if I were you, I'd confront him about it. Try to play it cool like "Hey is this your acc? Saw a fake with a similar name." See how he reacts. If he denies it, I'd block that sh*t. Nobody got time for games.

Keep your guard up too. Change your social privacy just in case. Hopefully it ain't him, but better safe than sorry man. Don't wanna get jammed up by some psycho ex. Let me know what happens!

[Asker]

So you think it’s most likely him? Wouldn’t it be crazy if I after 4 months of not talking to him askef him about this lol

[Oliverlogan263]

For real that would definitely be crazy if you hit him up outta nowhere to ask about the fake account after all this time of no contact! But part of me thinks it could be kinda satisfying too lol.

I mean, if it is him stalking you, it would call him out and put him on the spot. And if he gets all defensive and sketchy about it, that pretty much confirms your suspicions, you feel me?

But there's also a chance if you ask directly he'll just lie through his teeth about it. Or it really isn't him and would be mad random to bring up old shit.

Honestly I say the epic power move is to just keep doing you and ignore it for now. But start compiling any other little details that seem off so you have more evidence.

Then next time you run into him in person accidentally-on-purpose, you can be all casual like "Oh hey, saw some fake profile with your name was peepin my stuff. That was you right? Thought so..." and just smile real big while he stutters tryna explain himself haha.

Let that paranoia marinate in his head wondering if you're onto him! Then you got the upper hand, ya feel?

Do ya thang sis, but either way stay alert just in case the dude is actually buggin. Lemme know what ends up going down!

[boggboss]

Probably

[Asker]

Why do you think so?

[boggboss]

Maybe he is curious maybe he is looking for your attention could be anything

[Asker]

It’s weird since he dumped me..

[boggboss]

wouldn't say it is being curious or wondering if u would run after him again ain't that special

[Asker]

But who not check with his own account then…

[Asker]

Why not*

[boggboss]

Maybe he didn't think u would notice from a fake account

[Asker]

I do miss him. Should I reach out to him?

[boggboss]

If u don't mind getting with a guy that may or could leave u again if he gets bored sure

[Asker]

It wasn’t about him being boring. He thought were incompatible because we wanted different things from our future…

[boggboss]

Oh your that girl lol then sure thing not sure what's changed from their to now

[Asker]

It seems like his missing me now? What do you think?

[boggboss]

Impossible to know from not knowing his side again if u think that will make u happy message him

[Asker]

No I won’t message but it’s weird that fake account that has same name as him is viewing my stories…

[boggboss]

U do enjoy spiraling don't u?

[Asker]

So you don’t think it’s him?

[boggboss]

I have already answered thus why are u sprieling back to the first question have u no control over your overthinking

[Asker]

You said he probably wants my attention

[boggboss]

Yes I did

[Asker]

I don’t get why would he want my attention though

[boggboss]

I wouldn't know either