Do you think most girls standards are too high?

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nonyabeez-wax · Accepted Answer

Depends on the standards.

You want a guy 6ft , most guys are between 5'9"-5'11". There is nothing they can do about that. Lower your "standard".

You want a guy who is physically fit? Fait enough, but you better make sure you're physically fit as well, because what do you think he's looking for? Not a land whale.

You want him to make 400k? You're out of touch with reality and don't understand money. Stop it. Get some help. You're talking about the 10% of guys world wide. With these others 2 " standards"? You're looking at less than 1% of the GLOBAL population.

At this point, you want monogamy from him? Probably not gonna happen.

You want him to let you sleep around? Probably not going to happen with any guy unless he has a fetish. Good luck finding that one.

You want him to do the house work? You're supposed to be a team. You're supposed to be his partner. Not a live-in prostitute.

On the contrasts:
If you are looking for 1 PARTNER, who will love you, and do his best for you you, and tries to be only with you, who will take care of himself, and supports you while you support him. No. You're standards are where they are supposed to be. His money shouldn't matter. Only the bills being paid. Food in the house. Etc. If he gets sick, you're supposed to be there for him. Just like he's supposed to be there for you.

If you're looking for a partner to help you build a life, you're fine. You're standards are right where they need to be.

If you're looking for Essentially a father figure that you have sex with, no. You're standards aren't standards, they are delusions. And you'll hit 30 wondering "where have all the good men gone?" When you past him up for a man who either doesn't exist, or wouldn't want you anyways because he was looking for a partner, not a prostitute.

ManOnFire · Accepted Answer

What women call high standards are not high standards. Those things are superficial desires. High standards would be seeking men who know how to give love, would make a good father, knows how to survive and build a life without the status and millions of dollars. High standards would be a woman treating customer service and restaurant workers with respect, having mature feminine habits, and being courageous enough to stand up for what's right even when no one else will.

Most women who talk about high standards are putting emphasis on image and superficial things, not on things of deeper life value.

aceleon · Answer

Most of them are not even their actual standarts

İ am not even 6ft so even if i am not short i really doubt i am what those girls consider tall

İ really don't have much money, father is a engineer that retired this year and mom is a housewife so out income is average at best sometimes i make money from questionable places so i won't have to get into another fight for money with my father.

İn looks wise well this is the only thing that i can say i at least don't have a problem with, they didn't cause me rejection till now at least but as a male i really don't see the actual charm to them either maybe aside from my eyes and lips i guess (they are kinda feminine with long lashes)

So all an all i doubt i met their famous standarts but i never had trouble getting laid (no relationship until now though and i hope it Will stay that way until the day i die)

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Kind of... there are two issues. There's the problem with the standards themselves, and then the problem with whether the women are good enough to command the standard they are placing on the men.

A lot of girls have no clue how demanding "the bare minimum" is. That ish takes so much more work to put together then you would ever think until you try to do it for yourself. And soooo many women will just take that effort and spit on it by like that stuff is just what men should be expected to do in relationships. There is absolutely no appreciation of the effort this stuff takes.

Then, on the flip side, those same women have never once been asked to keep up with anything close to what they're asking from men, and they'll even complain about the stuff that other women have told them men want, which... frankly a lot of the stuff doesn't even make sense. Mind you, it's not MEN saying what men want; it's women saying what men want.

LeQuebecois · Answer

Yes.
Most women live in a fantasy world where they think owning a vagina:
1. Entitles them to a man who is physically attractive. No matter how fat, obnoxious, or otherwise physically repulsive the female is, she still thinks being a female means that she automatically deserves the hottest guys.
2. Ensures that every man wants to sleep with them.
I haven't had sex in two years, and I still wouldn't lower my standards.
3. Means they don't have to work.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

No.
I think most girls' standards are way too low in terms of compatibility requirements.
I think that most girls are boring and don't have any fun hobbies or interests.
And I think that the few gold digger girls are doomed to be alone forever.

DextroShade · Answer

Yes they usually do and this is repeatedly demonstrated on Fresh and Fit when they bring out the  Most women score 5/5 cat food bags so I recommend you try it for yourself.

HawkPerception · Answer

I believe most Western girls standards are too high. Most men aren't 6', don't have a ton of money, can't make you laugh 24/7, don't have the education you want them to have, and are not extremely confident.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I think some girls can put themselves out of the market by not being realistic and potentially meeting guys that know they are the whole package and use that to their advantage by playing numerous girls at once.

Anonymous · Answer

That's too oversimplified. It's not as simple as that, But yes.

Most women do not really know what they want. They think they do. Then they get it and realize it wasn't what they wanted. So it gives the appearance that they're standards are too high. Because most of these women reach for the largely unattainable thinking it will make her happy. The truth is most women today have no idea what makes a quality man. That's the real problem. Not her standards.

Drewtate · Answer

Absolutely. They shop themselves out of the market because some high quality men were willing to pump & dump them.

rigmarole · Answer

People can shoot for whatever they want... They can also live the with consequences of that behavior.

Billlewis · Answer

No, it's impossible for a woman to have standards that are too high. It's up to the men she dates to meet those standards.

Willlovewinintheend · Answer

No, all women should have a high earning man in their life. Broke loser men shouldn't even be allowed to download a dating app.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Not most. But some women do seem to have a very high standard when they don't seem to bring a lot to the table

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Yeah, I think it's unreasonable for an average/below average girl, not just in looks, but in other qualities too, to demand a 10/10 guy.

Starrrboy · Answer

People keep saying that but in real life I don't see it that much.. in fact I see a lot of " I can fix him " relationships nowadays...

dolemite58 · Answer

ya i think girls are too picky and it usually hurts them in the long run. they pass up good opportunities cuz they’re holding out for mr perfect that can do better than them.

Masterodd · Answer

Oh HELL yes... every day, all the time... If they weren't I would be happily with one and have 7 kids already.

Nifrayu · Answer

I don't know about most girls. But there are definitely a lot of girls who have unreasonable standards.

DaBiggestBird · Answer

No they’re actually kind of low like the good old saying “sh*t attracts sh*t”.

YAsQuen · Answer

Most men are plain ugly to most women is the issue. If we stopped feminizing men from birth it would be alright. Even allowing the continuous masculinization of women.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

No not now a day I think most girls standards are low cause I honestly believe most girls don't know there worth

FireFox001 · Answer

Some girls have higher standards than they should have. Overall, no.

shortster · Answer

I think that they focus too much on the physical and not enough on personality

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Think unrealistic expectations on both sides guys and girls.

kaxeka56577 · Answer

I don't know, but most women are very unattractive so no matter their standards they would never have a chance with a handsome man like me.

Mcluven08 · Answer

No. Some girls are very down to earth. I like girls like that.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know most girls. Girls on dating apps seems to have ridiculously high standards, though.

Staximus · Answer

My standards are too high hahaha

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

I don't know, You tell me

jahaims · Answer

Unrealistic I don't know about too high.

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