Do you think girls standards are out of control?

Question

It often seems like they want more and more from men. As in it’s never enough, a man can always be better looking, have more money etc..

4ngelic · Accepted Answer

the idea of us having crazy standards is manosphere bs. only complete delulus, some 12yos or some absolute cream of the cream of female beauty who would mog 99.9% of women, genuinely only want a 6'4 multi-millionaire model looking porn sized dicked inhumanly perfect tv show boyfriend with absolutely no personality flaws, who will only look at her and only her forever until death despite being a 1000/10.

in reality the vast majority of women want, fuck and date guys around where they are at in worth. women have had freedom for a couple decades now and obviously don't have crazy standards, or else gen z and millenials would barely exist and those who would, would all be hot and silver spoons. women usually don't hold men to crazy standards of $$$, looks, personality etc.

i think besides from being lobotomized by the tates of this world, some men think similarely to this either because some men project their thinking patterns onto women with sex (like they themselves would sleep with pretty much any woman that isn't ugly, old or obese, and would happily for many sleep with 5 different women in the same day if they got the opportunity. but they don't realize women aren't the same. a female slut might sleep with 5 different guys in a year, even though she could do that with hundreds or thousands if she wanted to. but she doesn't have the desire of number and variety that men do. if we're at least average looking and not too old, we get approached and hit on often online and irl, and usually that's for sex, unlike men we don't enjoy it and say yes to anyone remotely fuckable. not because we have sky high standards, we just don't biologically work that way. women like sex and have sexual desire, but it's nothing like with men. so many guys go and think that if they're rejected for sex women must think they're unattractive, but they clearly see in the mirror that they look fine, so then they begin to think that women have delulu standards) or because some men have very high standards for women compared to what they are. like the balding overweight 40yo man with 50k a year who only wants 18-25yo 9s with dd cups and a huge ass, 110lbs, etc. and naturally those girls want someone in their league, and in the couple cases they don't, they're looking for a very wealthy man. these guys are mad at them for it, and lump all women with them because only the hottest women are women to them kinda. they don't realize that you can only date around what you are in value. if you want a 10, you need to be a 10 or pay to play. some men are crazy and delusional.

just look around you, at your age a lot of people around you should be dating and if they aren't they have before or are sexually active at least from time to time.

personally my own standards (as a broke, 25yo, normal bmi, 5'8, semi cute woman), are just a regular looking dude who isn't fat, my height or taller, relatively young (my age ideally), p size doesn't matter unless it's pretty small, can be super broke (wouldn't mind at all) and up, isn't smelly, is a decent person, fun to be around, loves me and won't cheat on me. that's all.

SueShe · Accepted Answer

Since you basically ask the same question as under your other account, let me just copy/paste my answer I gave to your question

Does it feel like men and women are enemies?

I would not go as far as to say enemies but there are conflicts between the 2 genders.

While you see that women reduce men to their "height and things like that", men reduce women to objects for their sole sexual misuse and gratification. Why do you treat women as objects and not as humans? Why is it so important to you in particular and other men to have a sex slave for your personal use that you can dispose of once you get tired of misusing and mishandling her?

I would be interested to hear your answer but I have the feeling that it will never come and that you will create a new account to whine...

Dargil · Accepted Answer

What men will settle for is far too little. When you start dating, the first couple of dates should be like a job interview and you should have a checklist of things that you expect. They will be on their best behavior for those few dates but you have to find a way to measure respect, amenability, stability and compatibility.

Women's standards are unreasonably high, but they have no standards for themselves and believe that any behavior they display must be acceptable. That is why women keep men on the defensive and keep moving the goal post, so they never have to measure up to any standards by themselves

Nowadays, 40% of all marriages are ended in divorce by a woman. That may seem small on first look, but only about 50% of all marriages and in divorce. So marrying any unvetted female is as bad as walking near a roadside explosive device. And when they get around to divorcing you they will take revenge for their own bad decision making, by eviscerating you financially, preventing you from seeing your children and trying to ruin your life if they can.

Since women no longer want children, they rely on good looks and sexuality to lure you into giving them a wedding band. But in the end, they have nothing else to offer you. Nowadays, the most they can offer you is good looks, a pussy and a paycheck. And like a flower blossom, they will wilt over a short time and reveal what they really are to you.

This is a Western culture characteristic. Where all women are driven by the same needs, other women realize that they have to have adaptivity and make the best of it in the best interest of their children. Modern Western women don't have to adapt and are always looking for a better deal. Even if you're a good deal to start there is always a better deal around the corner to go to or compare you to.

In my opinion, the best arrangement is long-term cohabitation. A domestic partnership. In effect, it is a business partnership. That way, both partners have to try to get along and if they don't, they will be left alone. And if the partnership comes to an end, neither partner has the latitude to kill the other one legally. Men who are reading this, this is the best advice that you'll ever get. Beware.

Master_Debator · Accepted Answer

Girls are manipulated a bit easier than we are by the machine. The machine has tried to do it to us...

"Look at this fat chick, isn't she hot"

"Effing a trans woman doesn't make you gay"

But we don't buy into it... our biology has already determined we don't like that shit and they're not going to convince us it's trendy and hot.

Women on the other hand... You can trick them into anything. "You're a 10/10 girl, if you don't like you for being fat, he doesn't deserve you, you deserve the world, you can have it all" The women eat from that pig trough. They are told to have those standards at the moment, they beleive it, and they then wonder why they're single.

When the narative changes... they will change. It's a gender thing for the most part... shit, most of them wear makeup for other women more than men already... they just try to fit in more than anything else.

Do you think girls standards are out of control?

HighValue · Answer

They want FAR more from a partner than they bring themselves. The majority of women are nearly worthless in a relationship compared to the man. Less intelligent, less logical, more drama, more stress, no matter how much money she makes, she usually keeps it all to herself and expects the man to provide for her out of sheer greed and entitlement. They are often NOT good at raising kids, not good at managing money and end up is substantial debt that they expect the man to save them from. They usually can't repair things around the house, are too lazy to contribute much at home, not loyal, are very dishonest and also help their women friends deceive their spouses too.

The majority of them expect FAR more benefits from a man in a relationship than they bring themselves.

Screenwriter · Answer

Perhaps some women's standards are out of control. But reasonable people have realistic standards. Has to do with how people were raised, what their male role models were.

My bet is the fewer real male role models, the more unrealistic their standards are.

OneViewpoint · Answer

Girl's standards are not out of control. The internet is out of control. Self absorbed "influencers" are out of control. Those 2 things are a far cry from "all women". They are just the visible things that addicted people scroll on 24X7. Stop believing the internet is reality! Start using your brain. At least that's not the reality I'm seeing in my life.

Anonymous · Answer

When you have women who are 5's at best, demanding men who are in the top 1%, yeah. But those are only women who are on social media or are social media influencers. And then you have the feminists encouraging women to be the absolute worst versions of them selves while at the same time demanding absolute perfection from men. Its sad.

Alia_Czechgirl · Answer

In some countries it may be so. But in the country where I come from, the world is still fine. Men are men and women are women. And I don't think that either sex expects something from the other that it is not capable of offering itself. Life is about good cooperation between the sexes - otherwise humanity would have died out long ago.

Anonymous · Answer

I have never once had standards like that about a guy. If I meet a guy, or know a guy, I know whether I like him or not. I don't apply all these phony checklists or 'red flags' everyone talks on here about all the time. There's none of that out in the real world, and if you're running with that vapid crowd, get out.

MissSunshine2 · Answer

I just ask for honesty, commitment, intelligence, making a decent enough income that combined with mine, won’t leave us to live in the streets; and someone I’m attracted to somewhat. That’s not too much to ask.

Gamer20282 · Answer

A best man is just an average women, y'all complain about standards but ur princess treatment is smth I do for my girl friends on a random Tuesday, do better, ur girlfriend is not ur homie.

Anonymous · Answer

i'm not sure if they are or not , part of the problem is most women these days have better career options than men so they find jobs rather easily and think everyone else can do the same.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Hiding behind an anonymous post won't make you seem any less immature, Qeisi.

AngryCarl3 · Answer

I don't know if it's their standards that are the problem, so much as their inability to stay in a relationship with one guy.

Anonymous · Answer

no. i have noticed a pattern of where guys just tend to complain a lot more. In reality, womens lives are significantly harder than mens.

loveyouoak · Answer

I don't. This is quite normal. So why do men always want young and better looking women?

Anonymous · Answer

Nope. It's a girl's perogative to make as many foolish decisions as she likes. After all, it's her life. She has to live it, and live with the repercussions.

Twalli · Answer

The girls who have strict standards are single, those that don't are in a relationship.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Yes because we lads often jump over hoops to meet them.

Razp_Sorbet · Answer

Women just aren't putting up with bullshit

queenofcardio · Answer

My standards are reasonable

Qiero · Answer

Massively

Wailee · Answer

I reckon so

Qurio · Answer

Yeah I do

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