Do most girls have unrealistic standards?

Question

I really have everything going for me and sometimes girls on apps that are very average or even ugly will like me, like stay in your lane…. Why would I go for you?

These girls think they’re too good for their boots

I tick the boxes, tall, handsome, top career etc.. I should get the stunning girl etc…

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

girls have been bombarded with unrealistic standards the moment they are born

whether it's unrealistic standards for themselves or unrealistic standards for the men they wish to be with

nobody is telling women to look like Kim Kardashian or Emily Ratajkowski yet they try anyway and end up looking worse

nobody is telling women to dress and act all slutty yet they do so and then later complain about "creeps" objectifying them but no complaints if handsome guys objectify them

nobody is telling women they need a career, multiple degrees, a big house etc. to be deemed successful yet they still rack up 2/3 of all student loan debt and 80% of all consumer debt

though when it comes to their expectations of men however, they are definitely being force-fed unrealistic expectations of men in the way they look and the way they should behave

and when most men can't be Superman or Captain America or Aragorn or Prince Charming, they become disappointed hence they lash out in nasty ways, one of them being feminism which is ironic because they defend radical Islam and transwomen being real women lol

meepmeeperton · Accepted Answer

As a man I don't think so, but it is complicated. Not that many women truly want the 1% "Chads" and those who do are kind of shallow and it's not like you're missing out on much.

Most normal women might have more theoretical standards than the average man but the way women's attraction works is different. Weirdly specific things will attract them to a guy and they can even "warm up" to guys they weren't initially attracted to.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Oh, you again lol. If you were 1/10 as great as you thought, you wouldn't be on a dating app and getting only "average or ugly". Get over yourself and stop lying about reality. Thank you for checking in for your weekly crying session.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

You post this question once every 36 hours and you never mention a single thing about your personality.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Maybe not the standards themselves, but I think most women have a very specific feeling and vibe in mind when it comes to their happily ever after.

And that vibe doesn't seem to map on to reality very nicely. It's really only an issue because women get told their entire lives that the world needs to conform to them and that they don't need to change.

Nirmroth · Answer

What no? Its just an app, no one is gonna punish you for swiping on people you find attractive even if theyre a league above you.

Just swipe left on the ones you dont like and carry on instead of making this whiney post.

paledreams · Answer

As unrealistic as a guy thinking a push up bra or padding meant big tits lol - every 20 something woman has unrealistic expectations as much as every 20s man does not have a six pack 💪🏻💪🏻😅

Iron_Man · Answer

They talk about it, and act real picky but when push comes to shove if they like the guy, they will accept him

Anonymous · Answer

Women on dating apps have a bunch of dudes messaging them. You have to find a way to make yourself stand out.

EmmaMary · Answer

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