Close friend didn’t congratulate me on my graduation day?

[Anonymous]

Someone who I considered a close friend, we’ve been friends since high school, we would always hang out, we’ve travelled together, i’ve helped promote her business when she didn’t even ask and more etc. She has also helped me at times which is why I’m confused. I post pictures of my graduation and she watched everything and didn’t congratulate me at all. She even posted on her own page shortly after. I feel betrayed and feel like she’s jealous/hater which I don’t understand as she graduated last year and I of course congratulated her on her success. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

It's understandable that you feel hurt and confused by your friend's behavior. Instead of jumping to conclusions, consider having an open and honest conversation with her. Share your feelings and ask her if there was a reason she didn't congratulate you on your graduation. Communication can help clarify any misunderstandings and allow you both to address the issue. It's possible there might be a valid reason for her actions, and talking it out can provide clarity and possibly mend the friendship.

[Anonymous]

Now you know you shouldn’t call her your close friend and you’ve learned your lesson to never go all out again for someone who doesn’t even congratulate you on your achievement. It’s the bare minimum!!

[Asker]

Yeah I no longer consider her a friend at all.