Dark skinned women , how do you feel about it?

[enterr10]

How do you feel about being a dark skinned woman? How has your experience been with it in the society?

I like my dark skin and have never had any issues in society

I like my dark skin although faced some issues in society/dating/marriage because of it

Although I don't mind/like being dark skinned... but feel bad with/around light skinned men

Although I don't mind/like being dark skinned... but feel bad with/around light skinned women

Initially I wished I was lighter skinned because that's what is seen more desirable in society/dating etc

I am a fair /light skinned person

[7Phoenix7]

I like being a brown skinned woman. My experience has been a positive one. I do get compliments especially in the summer on my skin, when I'm not suffering from a breakout lol

[enterr10]

Are you light brown or dark brown?

[7Phoenix7]

I'd say in between... just brown. Definitely not light.

[enterr10]

But much lighter than the woman in the picture above?

[7Phoenix7]

Maybe a little lighter.. Not that much. You can see in my profile pic. I think her skin tone is really pretty

[Ihelppeoplebymilo]

I love being African :D

[enterr10]

You are as dark as the pic above?

[Ihelppeoplebymilo]

A bit lighter

[Anonymous]

It has its ups and downs, but overall, I enjoy being a black woman. Obviously, I've faced racism, but nothing traumatic; I tend to get along with everyone as long as they treat me with respect and vice versa. I'll put it this way: I don't face as much racism as society and social media portray, but enough to realize it's still an issue even today.

As for dating and relationships? Oh it sucks, lol. Put it this way, men like me, but not enough to date me- not even black men! I told my friends past horror stories where men, and even women just wanting to be friends, stopped talking to me when they realized I was black. That's pathetic : They loved my personality, hanging out with me, even had some candidly admit that if I wasn't black, they'd love to date me, but they could never date a black woman. Which yes, is their right but still... it stung.

So I guess it depends on one's luck. I see some black women that have no issues with dating, and then you have some like me that seem to have atrocious luck with dating and relationships.

[Cristinaissweet]

Yes, there's so many stereotypes that us black women have to face from society. We have to constantly prove ourselves everyday that we are not that. I have to constantly make sure I exercise, eat well and just be better to get treated right. Things are not just handed to us black women just because we're black, we literally have to work our buts off for everything we have. I know I do.

[enterr10]

Do you ever wish you wer light/pale skinned woman?

[Cristinaissweet]

No I don't. It may be harder but there are many light/paled women who are in terrible shape. Some are druggies and homeless in the streets. Just because you're light/pale doesn't mean you'll have a good life.

[enterr10]

But as you said , in general, society treats pale /lighter Skinned people nicely by default and they get things easily than a dark skinned person.
Have you ever had any issues in dating scenario because of being dark?

[Cristinaissweet]

I never had an issue dating wise because I'm attractive. When you're attractive that trumps color. I've had men who don't normally like black women like me simply because I'm attractive.

[enterr10]

You have even attracted white men?

[enterr10]

And you seem quite slim fit...
What's your height and weight? And how often do you exercise in a week? Gym? Weight training?

[Cristinaissweet]

Plenty... im 5"7, 126 pounds. I exercise 6 days a week. I workout at home.

[enterr10]

Nice tall. And slim built

[enterr10]

Weight training? Or simple body weight exercises?

[enterr10]

Have you ever felt awkward around a pale handsome guy because of being dark?

[Cristinaissweet]

No weight training just cardio... I run for an hour a day and maybe a little ab workout... I never felt nervous around a pale guy haha. What kind of question is that? it is awkward when someone doesn't normally like people who are my skin tone but finds me attractive.

[enterr10]

People have upfront told you that they generally don't like dark skinned women but still find you attractive?
Mostly they're pale guys or dark ones?

[Cristinaissweet]

Yes, mainly white.

[enterr10]

Interesting.
Do you mostly prefer dark men or white?

[Cristinaissweet]

I prefer white

[TallGuy8383]

Just took a look at your profile and wanted to say you’re attractive!

[Cristinaissweet]

@TallGuy8383 awe thank you ❤️❤️

[sage2021]

I probably have no business commenting on this because I am white, but I would like to say that I think women of color look beautiful when they wear yellow, or 🍑 peach colored clothes. The pastel's look pretty on you. 🙂🌹☮️

[enterr10]

Ah ok. You are pale white woman?

[sage2021]

@enterr10
No, not pale. Kind of olive white.
People say I look good in red, yellow, black, and purple.

[enterr10]

Do you find dark men attractive?

[BLP11520]

Women of all colors are beautiful!!!

[FoxEyez]

In my school that is predominantly whites, I do feel like an outsider, but I've learned to love it and say: Yeah, I would NEVER want to burn in the sun like y'all mofos.

[enterr10]

Have you ever had any negative experience in society because of your skin tone?

[enterr10]

Ever wished to have fairer skin?

[FoxEyez]

Yeah, I have had negative encounters in society because of my brown skin. Especially from girls — white girls. And adults.

[enterr10]

You are brown or darkish as in the picture above?

[KostasKouvalis]

Yeah, have you noticed how when your people loot stores, they never steal sunscreen?

[FoxEyez]

I'm Latina, but I'm pretty tan.

[enterr10]

Tan dark as the woman in the picture above?

[FoxEyez]

I'd say a few shades lighter.

[enterr10]

So you'd say lighter Skinned women make rude comments and statements regarding dark women?

[FoxEyez]

Everyone does sometimes because we're judgmental creatures.

[MadamLovesALot]

Seriously I’m white 5 seconds in the sun and BOOM I’m super sunburnt

[MadamLovesALot]

My bad I put the wrong comment I meant to say that’s just dumb. Nobody should be judged on their skin color.

[enterr10]

@MadamLovesALot you turn dark brown / as dark as woman in pic above?

[Sofargone93]

I feel like dark skin women are too hard on themselves. I think black women get a very harsh stereo type because of the black culture of ratchetness. People tend to think black women have attitude problems and only want to twerk , eat hot Cheetos have kids for child support money. That is not true. I love black women regardless of yhe color. I love their strength and how they hold their heads high when the would throws negative men and opinions their way.

[m33ladEmjay]

If you believe you're a victim, appearance and location become irrelevant. For instance, I visited a club where two white girls mentioned they exclusively date black guys. I wasn't bothered; I moved on.

In 2023, people label dislikes as racism, preferences as racism, and choices as racism. It seems like by 2030, even selecting the wrong food might be considered food racism.

The term "racist" seems to have lost its meaning due to overuse, overplay, and abus3.

For more info go to

www. milademjay. com

[sheenagwapa]

a word of advise just because yu are fait that doesn't mean you look good you could look like a complete SHIT anyway for people with dark skintone just focus on brightening your face and you would be finr

[enterr10]

How can someone just get a fai face but still have dark skin everywhere else?

[whistlingwh0res]

Women want to have white skin like shining in front of crowd. I guess men are same but not as much as women do.

[enterr10]

Ya maybe. So dark women don't like being dark and wish to be shining pale white to be more attractive and sexy?

[whistlingwh0res]

No women want to look like a man working in the farmland

[enterr10]

So these women in pics above are looking like a man working in the farmland?

[strateguy632]

famous Michael Jackson wanted white skin more. and he had the choice

[maroon_eyez]

I live on an island and I love dark skinned women.. they are gorgeous

[enterr10]

You have lived with women as dark as in the picture above?

[maroon_eyez]

Yes i have.. dark skinned with amazing personality, body and vibes

[enterr10]

Were they comfortable and confident with their dark skin?

[maroon_eyez]

They were and the confidence makes them more attractive and sexy

[strateguy632]

i decided about dark skin case by case. so far i only dated one of them, and we broke up first date. okay sadly i get dumped.

[FutanariEnjoyer]

Transgender black women tend to have BBCs, so I personally quite like them.

[enterr10]

Have you met a black trans woman?

[soe11]

I like your skin tone, would be sexy with bikini.

[Anonymous]

African decent or Aboriginal women are the only true proper decent dark females. Any others are evil and up to some bill shit

[enterr10]

What do you mean 🤔

[BarryLiverstone]

They are attractive

[Whynot_Desiree]

Have you ever dated a dark skin girl before?

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes.

[Whynot_Desiree]

Can you answer both of the questions I asked please?

[BarryLiverstone]

What did you ask? I answered the original q

[Whynot_Desiree]

Thank you! Can you answer the other question also please?

[enterr10]

@Whynot_Desiree are you dark?

[pickles77]

I agree

[BarryLiverstone]

I want so many things

[Anonymous]

This reeks of racism.

[zagor]

How so?

[enterr10]

It's all in your mind then

[justabuddy]

I have found a lot of dark skin girls attractive.

[Gabriel-Chicanito]

Fine.