Help…if I know that I’m not ugly, why do I never share my pictures when guys ask for them. Am I weird?

[Anonymous]

I don’t know why but I never want to send them anything. I’m sure they get annoyed but I just can’t do it. I offer to share my Snapchat with them and they can see me though there when I post but I just can’t directly send them my pictures.

[FoxEyez]

Honestly, it's SUCH a good thing you don't share pictures because you never know what they can do with them. You are saving yourself loads of drama and problems. I don't share facial pictures as well, and if a guy is actually interested, they're not gonna focus on that. But then again, it would be kinda annoying if I couldn't see the person I'm talking to. I would say to just facetime them and see their face while they see yours at the same time. So no, you're not weird buddy.

[Uby10000]

It's unironically a good thing, you shouldn't post pictures of yourself for a man unless you feel confident about it. This is ALWAYS the truth, REGARDLESS of your looks. Internet is quite sneaky and filthy sometimes so it's for the best. Take your time and you will feel more confident BUT ONLY with a person you like.

[glennos89]

You mean you never show a selfie with them? Seems like a very insecure approach of trying to date and most likely not having any chances of succeeding then tbh 🧐

[Asker]

What if I offered to give him my Snapchat so he could see my posts?

[glennos89]

That would be a step in the right direction 🥳

[Asker]

How should I react if he knows I am extremely shy and have never been with a guy so it takes me a while to open up but he still threw a fit when I offered my Snapchat instead?

[Asker]

He said that if I liked him it should be easy for me to send him a picture. I told him I offered my Snapchat so he could see whatever I post and he didn’t like it so there’s not much I can do. Shortly after I started feeling insecure with his behavior and awkward too so I told him he doesn’t have to talk to me anymore. Then he threw a fit saying I always push him away and then told me it’s okay to take my time. At that point I didn’t care anymore and wished him the best.

[Asker]

Keep in mind he has seen my picture before. Never have I asked him for a picture. He shows me because he wants to.

[glennos89]

It's helping a lot to better connect when you get to see eachother in different settings... Bonding with eachother needs eye contact. Someone's eyes can tell you a lot
Just by looking into them. in the 👀 you find the soul

[Asker]

Well, let me ask you this… if you were dealing with a girl with my personality, would you continue to pressure her or would you try to understand her? You’ve seen her picture before and you know she’s not ugly. You also know she’s always there for you and she likes you a lot. The only problem is… she’s just socially awkward when it comes to men and just doesn’t know how to be confident/comfortable so she needs a lot of baby steps.

[glennos89]

Depends on how long the situation stays that way tbh 🤷🏻‍♂️

Let me explain...

Ofcourse I would give her time to come out of her shell. You cannot force people to do things or send pictures in this case.

But I really hate keeping contact without actually personal interaction. Don't ask me to keep sending dry text messages back and forward for months on end because that will make me lose interest automatically. I assume that video calls isn't a option either right?

Maybe it sounds rude to you when I said this... But I can't stay interested with just dry text messages back and forward for weeks or months on end. I can actually only bond with you when I'm seeing your facial expressions. I wanne look in your eyes to be able to have a idea if you are actually genuine when you speak but this isn't possible by text messages only 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Tim2nice]

You don’t have send anyone pictures. I never ask women to send me pictures, but then again I’m not a boy trying to impress my mum.

[BigDog1989]

Sounds like a fake

[Asker]

What if I offered to have him in my Snapchat? It’s just the whole…me sending to him that I simply can’t do. I don’t know why.

[Byuser]

If you would like to send us your own picture