Why do a lot of women assume if you can't get a girlfriend it's because of your personality?

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MicroViewer · Accepted Answer

Why do a lot of women assume if you can't get a girlfriend, it's because of your personality? As someone who knows a thing or two about driving away women, I can assure you that it's not just about your personality. Sure, being a good person is important, but let's face it - looks matter too. Have you ever considered just being a really handsome guy? If that's not an option, try hanging out by dumpsters outside of women's dormitories to intimidate less attractive dudes into leaving so you have the advantage or near beer bongs at parties, offering girls shots, then telling them you put GHB or a horse tranquilizer in it, once she passes out start pounding her unconscious corpse, who cares? it's not like the law will believe her if she doesn't remember, right? I mean come on, nobody wants a nice guy. Bitches love bad boys! And never forget the assfucking. The minute things get serious just tell her stories of how much expereince you have in shoving massive cocks inside your gaping rectum filled up with spunk, watch them all leave crying within seconds!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Because women lie to themselves about why they reject men.

It's like if I was to say I will not date a woman who's personality is over 300lbs. I'd be called fat phobic then I would say it has nothing to do with her weight? Would you believe me? Well that's how it is with women. They can reject a man for a 100 different reasons. 50% of them being physical. But she will never admit that it's ever physical, even to herself. Because women don't like to feel shallow. It's the equivalent about guys not liking to look or feel weak, so they lie about it.

noemiii · Answer

On the guys spectrum, it’s probably your looks that would be why you can’t get a girlfriend. Too many guys with horrible personalities with girlfriends for this to ever be true.

Minxxie · Answer

Because every woman has had the unfortunate experience of having to reject a guy for a personality flaw that was just too terrible to deal with.

My ex was 6'1 and had a face like young Leonardo Di Caprio and he was a sweet and thoughtful teenager when I fell for him... but he grew into an entitled, egotistical, selfish, rude, disrespectful, and emotionally abusive man.

No amount of good looks could make up for all of that.

I had to accept that the person I fell in love with no longer exists. It helped that most of his friends had to come to the same conclusion not long after, because he treated them just as badly as he treated me.

If your personality harms people you will end up lonely, that's just reality.

rachel776 · Answer

if a guy can't get me it's pretty much because of his personality, and i know that's true for my friends so there's some anecdotal evidence

guys always think it's based on looks. my boyfriend now is very good looking but i avoided going out with him for a very long time (people were trying to set us up). when he kept showing up at my rehearsals and shows all over the country, i got to know his personality and finally gave in

Raaj4you · Answer

I think personality is not about 6, 7 foot tall, having money and being handsome. Personality means a person's all the good qualities including his characters, genes, health, wealth, wisdom, family values, moral, ethics, education, behaviour, family background, talent, skills, money and physical appearance all combined.

I have seen some tall, handsome, rich dumb guys and ugly, short, poor, smart guys. There are only few guys in this world who are destined to be handsome, rich, educated and successful all at a time. It is hard to find these type of gem 💎 guys. If girls/ women fail to identify this type of guys then they are the biggest losers.

ButthurtTroll · Answer

Well, man, I think I know. It's because you're a sad troll who gets kicked off social forums. You used to be a real powerhouse on the internet, talking about BBC and horror cocks and anal sex. But then you got cyberbullied and gave up your days of trolling. Maybe you should try to get out more and meet some new people. You might find someone who likes your real personality.

Lliam · Answer

Because it's probably true, unless you are utterly grotesque. Even if you refuse to lower your sights a bit, it's still your personality that prevents you from doing so.

You could get a girlfriend if you wanted one and knew how.

JacobJordan · Answer

Wife response: it nearly always is as a result of personality. Relationship quality women do not care much about physical looks as long as you are somewhat attractive. But personality will cause us to immediately be more attracted or utterly repulsed.

Yannae · Answer

Because looks alone aren't enough to keep a normal relationship standing. Those who try to keep a relationship standing who has big flaws in the personality department, are depressed, lost, unhappy or worst case are so used to that treatment that they don't know any better and think that's normal.

wiltingrosepetal · Answer

Appearance and experience draws women in. Personalities make women stay. Plus, if he doesn't have the confidence nor want for a girlfriend, it's also down to personality 🤷‍♀️

Blueeyes81 · Answer

Because that is the case a lot of the time. A crap personality or a crap attitude or self pity.

thegreenyogi · Answer

It's simply a prejudice or overall preconception. I think a lot of people simply find it hard to look beyond what appearances on the surface suggest.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Because that girl hates that guy's personality, and she didn't reflect on the possibility that a guy would actually hate her personality, making it subjective.

bededazzle · Answer

they are lovely, but can’t possibly understand the plight of the lonely man

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I think some of them will assume that it is because of your appearance.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Because women know that women date men based on how the men make the women feel more than how he looks.

PreciousJewel · Answer

It's either you being ugly or having a bad personality

Worst · Answer

why else wouldn't you be able to get one lol

4ngelic · Answer

because that can often be the case

Nikki1989 · Answer

Because that is a giant part of attraction.

HelpfulWoman · Answer

because 9/10 times it IS.

colaman94 · Answer

All people assume far too much and often 😕😔

exitseven · Answer

Because most of the time they are right.

Anonymous · Answer

Okay, it's your looks

izgmoen · Answer

The nice answer that they can truly tell you..

OddBeMe · Answer

Because that’s true.

DreamLife7 · Answer

Um bc its true

riverrat3 · Answer

Usually is

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