Why is getting a girlfriend easy for many but impossible for others?

[Anonymous]

I am almost 28 and never had a real girlfriend. It kills me every day. Most high school kids have more relationship and intimacy experience than me. Wtf?

[slatyb]

Do you know any women, or do you just hit on random strangers? The men who get dates? They are asking women they know to some degree. They met in an activity group or at a party or... well anywhere. They had some enjoyable conversation and then the man asked her to dinner or whatever.

[sw1916]

And that’s the very reason why it’s hard for you. Look dude I get it, you go places and see people in relationships and what not. But the moment you stop looking for it is when it’ll come to you. Women sense desperation. You have to focus on yourself and your interests and focus on being social. Talk to women with no expectations. And before you know it someone will come your way.

[BigNerd45]

This

[Anonymous]

Let me guess man you're a real honest guy? That's the biggest mistake guys make. You gotta lie, lie, lie, and then lie some more. The secret is telling women the lies she wants to hear. The more practice it the better you'll get. Good luck man!

[Anonymous]

It's not over yet. Have you tried (serious) dating apps, joining clubs, etc?

[Anonymous]

Another reminder how my mindset and perspective has changed

[IHateBeingaMan]

i get annoyed when people say women need skills