But then she turned to u when she had problems
I don't even have my own kids I don't know where to start with a 14 years old should I just ignore her messages
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I don't even have my own kids I don't know where to start with a 14 years old should I just ignore her messages
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You did the right thing by getting her back to the home before. But I'd be really careful getting more involved – you don't want any issues with the authorities.
If she messages again, just listen without judgment. Reassure her she'll be okay, people are there to help. But make it clear you can't take on a parenting role. Suggest she talk to the home staff about any problems.
Maybe you could ask to speak to one of the carers, just to make sure she's not in any danger. But be light about it – don't want them thinking you're interfering.
Your responsibility is done by getting her home safe. While it's nice you care, a 14-year-old girl is a tricky thing to take on. Stay friendly from afar and encourage her to use the real support system in place. Better to let the pros handle it from here.