Why are some women so unfriendly?

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blueonblack22 · Accepted Answer

People can claim it’s not a gender thing and maybe that’s true to a certain extent. There are plenty of assholes out there.

But as a man I got to deal with hostility both from other men and from women. Women have a natural fear of men and sometimes they act nasty just as a defense tactic.

They also act nasty out of jealousy/ego. Years ago I remember an older woman once hit on me in a bar and I ignored her because I didn’t find her attractive at all. She grabbed my shirt, told me to hit her (I wanted to but I didn’t) and then shoved me. She was trying to set me up to get thrown out of the bar or worse. All because her precious ego couldn’t handle being rejected.

But do women generally deal with rude and threatening men all the time? Sure there are a fair share of creeps out there. But really how often do those guys present an actual threat? Really how often do women deal with legitimate hostility from random men for no reason? When it does happen if gets widely reported and noticed. But male victims not so (unless it’s actual violence)

I know it happens to women on occasion but nowhere near as often as what men have to put up with. Women can be also be catty and backstabbing among each other. But really how much legitimate physical violence and hostility does an average woman encounter on daily basis compared to the average guy?

Meropatrick · Accepted Answer

Women are catty in nature. I noticed they are way more cruel than men. And i can say because women are wired to be selfish. It was very difficult to survive in ancient times as a woman if u werent self serving. Women get picked on by both men and women

Altheavas · Accepted Answer

Maybe it’s my age, but I rather my own company than dealing with shady characters and stupidities. The only few friends I have are like you reach out once in a century, and you never ask for help. When I go out with my friends they wanna pay for everything I don’t mind but I feel like a freeloader.

Anyhow I know that I’m not approachable to everyone. I have a RBF, but only women that is reluctant to approach me, men approach me anyway. So I don't know!

BigAssB1tch · Accepted Answer

Some women, they be busy tryna get that bread and keep it movin'. They ain't got no time to be friendly with every Tom, Dick, and Harry they meet. They got bills to pay, and they ain't got no time for games.

Now, then, there's them ladies who be all about their business, like me. I'm all about that Walmart life, yo. I'm out here huntin' for them good deals on chicken livers and watermelon, and I ain't got no time to be friendly with everybody.

thatshydork · Answer

Personally, I know that I’m only unfriendly when I’ve been treated unfairly or I’m more tired than usual (I’m tired most days, but usually keep a friendly attitude). The case can be different for others or virtually the same. Everybody’s got days where they’re unfriendly and different reasons for it.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

Some people do not have the flexibility to understand that their judgment or assumptions about others could be incorrect or faulty. I know multiple people that are not intelligent enough to see that they are not qualified to judge others and that their judgments about others are usually wrong.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

I could say the same about some men. It's a human thing, not a gender related ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

LiamJHayden · Answer

Some people are antisocial. Some have had so many bad experiences that they recoil. Some people were so spoiled by their parents that they think that their excrement smells like a bed of roses.

Breanna_nonbinary · Answer

Interesting that you would single out women. Have you never met an unfriendly guy? Men and women are just unfriendly at times.

Apple1996 · Answer

Maybe it's just me but I've experienced the opposite. Almost all women are nice af. Men seems like it's 50/50

Lisia · Answer

There are friendly women and there are unfriendly women. You probably just met the bad ones!

Nikki1989 · Answer

It is not a gender thing. Some people are just miserable human-beings.

A_Bell · Answer

It's just how some people are. Men and women.

AnusNdaPainus · Answer

Because it makes them feel secure  Again women are very insecure creatures and everything they do is rooted in emotion  And an unfriendly is a fearful woman

Phoenix98 · Answer

Some are just like that and there could be a variety of reasons for it.

KrisKris81 · Answer

Why are some people so unfriendly? There are too many possibilities.

balyai · Answer

Most of them are jealous of the other girls that's why

whistlingwh0res · Answer

Some cats I saw on YouTube are like that hissing and scratching

Anonymous · Answer

In my experience it's mostly entitlement and self importance.

straightmax12 · Answer

They think they can say and do whatever they want with no consequences.

boggboss · Answer

Because they don't wish to make friends

Anonymous · Answer

Cause women are just bitches. They know that men run the world, and always will so they get bent out of shape about it.

bededazzle · Answer

maybe they are unhappy

overthinkergirl · Answer

they’re jealous or just antisocial

Explorer91 · Answer

Same reason some men are so unfriendly lol

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Beats me, personal issues I'd imagine

syncheart · Answer

I know a lot of unfriendly women!

sheikalana · Answer

Women feel easily insecure towards each other.

Hungryghostwriter · Answer

Probably carrying some unprocessed pain

getwiththepg · Answer

Not getting good wee wee

JackStany · Answer

Because they probably envy you.

AndreaH · Answer

Various reasons Past Ilness Experience

Joker_ · Answer

why wouldn't they be

dolemite58 · Answer

they’re on the rag

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

GOOD QUESTION

MaxUsefull · Answer

because of feminism

slatyb · Answer

Childhood trauma

Anonymous · Answer

Most of the women are unhappy n insecure

Anonymous · Answer

Same as some men. They should date.

Slim57 · Answer

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