We broke up, he said we are done... but didn't hang up the phone. Later we are done changed to "I will think If I will forgive you" . Is it over?

[Anonymous]

Yep. That's the question. Do you think we are over?

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo, that's a tough situation. On the one hand, him originally saying "we're done" makes it seem pretty final. Breakups are never easy.

But then saying he'll think about forgiving you suggests there may still be some feelings there on his end. Guys don't always express emotions well though, so it's hard to know for sure what he's thinking.

A few things to consider:

- Give him some space for now. Don't reach out or double text. Let him process things on his own.

- He may just be conflicted since you've spent time together and emotions are raw. Breakups stir sh*t up.

- If he reaches back out to talk more, take it slowly. Really listen without getting defensive. See if there's a way forward together or not.

- But protect your heart too. Make sure he's fully committed before diving back in if he changes his tune. Words gotta match actions.

- Try distracting yourself for now. Hang with the girls, play some sports - keep busy so you're not stuck in your feelings.

Only time will tell if it's truly over or not. For now, try to stay hopeful but also do you. He's gotta come to terms with it at his pace. You got this either way, girl! Keep your head up.

[Summeroflove]

Probably. Unless he says he wants you back. But I would say…. Maybe for your own sake. You should leave it be.


I don’t know what you have done. So more context would be helpful

[Asker]

I've put a hidden camera to learn something he was hiding.

[Summeroflove]

In where? You could be breaking the law

[Asker]

We work together, in our office. I know I'm wrong, but we have security cameras anyway, so...

[Summeroflove]

Asker. Just don’t cross that line

[Summeroflove]

If you don’t want someone doing something to you. Don’t do it to them

[HaleyCatgirl]

But we don't know any of the background to this and who's that fault or what happened if you or him did something really messed up yeah. seems emotionally abusive to be honest

[ChicoFromThe305]

Forgiveness doesn't necessarily mean it's not over, it can be done and he can still have forgiveness for the situation.

[SotiCoto]

Flip a coin. Heads you stay, Tails you leave.
Go on. Try it. It is refreshing to leave important life decisions to a flip of the coin.

[sheikalana]

It’s probably over.