Why girl ghost?

[Anonymous]

Girls replying our text doesn't make you pregnant...😡

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I understand what you are saying.

In my case, I seem to have periods when I feel like isolating myself and I can only socialize with up to 5 people. 3-4 being my closest family and 1 used to be my partner.

Then I feel energetic and I go back to reply most messages.

The thing is it takes longer and longer to get that energetic to feel like reconnecting with my friends. They do understand me, but I think I lose a lot by not interacting with them as often as they wish to.

I don’t like people see me bored, depressed and etc.

So when I feel that way, I isolate myself. Which is a bad coping strategy.

I can’t only interact with people when I feel at my best and energetic.

It’s not helping.

On the other hand, social interactions get more and more overwhelming, I have hundreds of unread and unanswered notifications, it does not make me feel good to think of that, but I don’t feel like doing any other way.

There are some people who I enjoy talking to more than others,

If I reply your message every time you message me, consider yourself someone I like a lot, because I don’t do that.

I can’t seem to force myself to do that.

That being said, I think I need to get into therapy to solve that problem.

My point is, it’s not always about you.

We do have our own demons to fight with sometimes.

There are a lot of interesting men in my DMs, who I have never replied to. I just didn’t feel the emotional readiness and engagement to do so.

The time flies, whenever I feel ready, they will most likely not be here.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Once a man was having monologues in my DMs for 7-8 months, until I finally answered him. I was just impressed that he didn’t gave up on me. I was always reading his messages, I just didn’t find the willingness in myself to answer until after I realized he wasn’t going to give up and it kind of melt my heart, that there might be someone who might not give up on me even if I am so far from being perfect.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

He was sending me updates about his life, weekly. I was barely answering him. He still kept doing that though.

At some point he missed and I noticed and missed his updates. I don’t mean you should be a creep.

I just mean, there are weirdos like me out there too.

[Asker]

Darling you're not weirdo 😘

[Anonymous]

Same reason guys ghost, she isn’t interested in pursuing something with you.

[Asker]

No one forcing her
But have balls to say on face rather then behave like coward

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah it can come off as being a coward but I also think they just don’t care enough to end things formally.

[Asker]

Seriously girls have mind on their knees...😂

[The-Stud]

Reading this I am not amazed that they ghosted you haha

[HelpfulWoman]

... or interested.

[ThrillSeeker01]

Just move on.