Why is it women complain about being lusted after , then they complain when they are NO LONGER lusted after?

Why is it women complain about being lusted after , then they complain when they are NO LONGER lusted after?

So it all starts out well , then things go down and down , so it appears some women complain about getting attention , then when it wains they complain about being " invisible " surely you cannot have it both ways right?

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I'm going to " come out " and update the question. This is an observation I have noted over many years , I also have 3 older sisters , 2 of which were players at one time and greatly sort after , they were complaining that no one is interested - of course not you are too old ! They complained too when young. But its not just them , its a women thing !
Why is it women complain about being lusted after , then they complain when they are NO LONGER lusted after?
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