Girls, For those sharing apartments with other girls, how do you feel about them having guys spend the night?

[ginger_snap]

Does it bother you hearing them or bumping into unknown guys in your place?

[msmissydc]

So during university times a few years back I was in that situation. We had a three person shared apartment that went from 3Women to 2W/1M and for a semester to 1W/2M. So I had all combinations including three girls.

Bassically the situation didn't change, whoever was living there. You have your room thats private for you but the rest is common rooms and while we did take it into consideration when someone had boy or girl visits it was not much change to day to day life. Privacy in your room but you did walk into others in the common rooms from time to time.
I personally was in the situation that it was my boyfriend, so after a while they knew him already. for one night stands of them it was rarely more than a 'hey or hello, if you walked into them.

[northerngal]

Well back when I shared an apartment with 2 other women guys would overnight every once in a while. As long as we were quiet and respectful of each other it worked well. Now most of the time the guys would be gone by morning but on the rare morning they were not it was not too weird. Now we never walked around naked or anything...

[Simslover92]

No we've learned to respect each other's boundaries. I'm usually in my room when her guy comes over and vice versa. Our apartment is where we can literally not see the other part of the apartment. So my side is private and her side is also private. So we don't have a problem when it comes to that.

[WhitneySnow]

My cousin does this and she says it doesn’t bother her. She says they hear her making noises too and nobody ever says anything. Just a fact of life. She says it helps that they’re all friends though.

[mandyfire98]

I'm perfectly ok with it. Most of the time I'm either at my partners place or they are at their boyfriend's place. there's been a few times I've heard them but it's ok, it happens. She's heard me a few times as well. It's part of life.

[Katie1964]

Way back when I was single and living with friends, I was pretty common to have your boyfriend spend the night or for us to spend the night with our boyfriends.