How do I handle this situation?

[Anonymous]

I go walking everyday to a gas station by my house for exercise. I have been going there for like 2-3 years now and haven't really had any problems until lately. I have always been about having my hair and nails done. I like to braid my hair (add bundles), wear wigs, and do quick weaves bc my natural hair is about shoulder length and is taking forever to grow. There is this lady who is a cashier at the gas station and me and her never really talked but when I wore my natural hair for a while she all of a sudden was all talkative and friendly. I didn't really put to much thought into why that is , I just enjoyed having someone to converse with. As I am a stay at home mom and most of the day I just am home with my toddler. I dyed my hair red like a week ago and she completely stopped talking to me. I didn't really understand why. Now I put a wig on bc the color was kinda patchy and I didn't want to damage my hair any further. Now she is downright making fun of me and condescendingly asked me oh is that a wig. I feel a mix of emotions bc I genuinely enjoyed our conversation and the drastic changes confused me and hurt me tbh. She hasn't really said anything after that comment but it just rubs me the wrong way that she said that to me. I want to do or say something to guarantee she never does that crap again. But also don't want to be banned from the gas station bc other than her I like the gas station.

[Anonymous]

So many woman have no idea just how much difference it can make to your energy, confidence, power and vibe when you have completely natural hair. Wigs (unless medical reasons), weaves and hair dye can all destroy that energy. Everything that is genuine, real and authentic will usually bring out a certain type of energy and we may not even notice. The lady at the gas station probably has no idea of any of that as well.

Some in the comments are saying 'just let it go, 'or she probably has mood swings' but you asked this question because you sense there is much more to it than this!

As I always say, 'It is better to have real hair that looks fake, than to have fake hair that looks real'

If your hair is not growing, command it to do so through your words. I had thinning hair and did the same and now it grows back each day. I've helped others with hair problems and you can use nutrition, scripture and affirmations.

[molonski2]

She is a gas station attendant , I would not be too concerned how she converses with you , she is probably just driven by mood swings , just attend the gas station , be civil and consider it a business transaction , what she thinks , simply does not matter.

[Lliam]

I wouldn't worry about it. She's not your friend and what she thinks isn't important.

[Avicenna]

Just let it go

[boobliker]

just ask her what is wrong?