How do I handle this situation?

[holhartedly]

I feel like I'm wasting my prime on my boyfriend. He says he gives it to me as much as he can, however once a week or 4 times a month just isn't anywhere close to being satisfactory for me. How do I tell him that he is wasting my prime years without being rude or insensitive? Or should I just leave him? We've had discussion about it before several times and every time he ends up saying the same thing. He is unwilling to make any changes or to try a little more to please me.

[Summeroflove]

Gives what to you? Sex? Maybe that’s why you’re 40 and still playing these games because your relationships have all been based on sex and you know this one’s doomed to fail like the rest of them it’s just really what you thought might be your last hope so you’re holding on.

No, if you’re not happy leave him not just for you but him too. Just explain what the problem is and tell him you’re wasting time on this. You never made a genuine connection anyways so yeah it’s not gonna last.

[AviatorTom]

If you like and love the guy, use toys and masturbate when you want more. Once a week is not that atypical for someone your age.

[EmmaMary]

Life is far too short as it is, so say your fond farewells and quickly move on... Wishing you good luck and future happiness. x

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Nikki1989]

You deserve better. Move on with someone else. Life is short, don't waste it.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the turbulent waves of relationship needs can be like trying to salsa without stepping on your partner's toes. 🕺💃 You're looking for a rhythm that matches your energy, and there's nothing wrong with that. Communication here is your best friend, dressed up in lingerie of openness and honesty. Start by turning down the volume on accusations like "wasting my prime years" and instead, compose a love song that expresses your desires, feelings, and unmet needs. Tell him how you cherish your time together and want to make the most out of those moments, highlighting how a more satisfying intimate connection could amplify the love and joy in your relationship. If he's playing the same tune despite your efforts, it might be time for a solo performance. Remember, it’s about finding happiness in your rhythm, whether that's together or apart. Keep the beat going, and don't be afraid to dance to the tune of your desires!

[slatyb]

You asked, he answered. It's not going to change. You can stay and accept it or end it and seek someone else. I know what I would do.

[bowenw]

You clearly aren't happy with him so it's time you move on.

[LiamJHayden]

People can be wonderful and still not romantically compatible. Find a new boyfriend.

[Maybeyoutoo]

Maybe you should take a break from your relationship, man.

[spartan55]

'prime years' age 40? 😂😂😂